Manipulative sister has ruined my life

So I am a 16 year old boy who lives with his nearly 13 yr old sister and single mother. Basically my sister and I are first generation Americans (mother is an immigrant from Somalia) so its normal to be in a wild household. The thing is my little sister is very spoiled. Ever since she was 1 yrs old, my mother has babied her so much and she basically acts like acts like a brat. She is also very controlling.

The way my little sister is controlling is that she has found a way to control my mother and I by just yelling. I am literally not allowed to sit in the living room, eat at the dining table, or basically anything or else she will yell at me. My mother does absolutely nothing about it and doesn't care. My sister is very very manipulative so my mom only believes her. Whenever I tell her about it, she guilt trips me and tells me "I hAvE rAiSeD yOu My EnTiRe LiFe So HoW dArE yOu SpEaK tHaT wAy To Me?".

My sister has given me severe depression. I have been locked up in my room for 2 weeks now cause she will yell at me if I step anywhere near the living room/dining table. You may also be thinking is that my mother is toxic, but that is not true. Just 3 weeks ago my mom tested positive for COVID-19 and I showed a little symptoms so my sister was isolated in her room. And to say that it was the most peacfull week we both had is an UNDERSTATEMENT!! We legit had so much fun, stayed up late at night watching tv, and had fun. Sure, we did have some arguments, but those were just regular mother-son arguments.

Now that my sister is out of isolation, she has become even worser than ever. Before it used to be just my sister, but now my mother has also gotten involved in it too. The only reason my mom has gotten involved is because my sister is just way too manipulative. Right now as I am writing this, my sister is victomozing herself FOR LITERALLY NO REASON. Whenever I complain about her, she automatically has to come crying and say its a lie. And guess who my mother believes more? Yup, my sister. Just today my mom bought my sister her own 60" tv which she put in the living room and I am not even allowed to watch it! So guys, I am just trying to be patient so I can one day move out. Even though I am too ugly to ever get a job, even if I don't have a car, and even if it'll take me years to move out, I'll just keep being patient cause one day it'll be over.

TL;DR: Toxic and manipulative sister has turned our household toxic and ruined my life.

Submitted August 07, 2020 at 12:14AM

So I am a 16 year old boy who lives with his nearly 13 yr old sister and single mother. Basically my sister and I are first generation Americans (mother is an immigrant from Somalia) so its normal to be in a wild household. The thing is my little sister is very spoiled. Ever since she was 1 yrs old, my mother has babied her so much and she basically acts like acts like a brat. She is also very controlling.The way my little sister is controlling is that she has found a way to control my mother and I by just yelling. I am literally not allowed to sit in the living room, eat at the dining table, or basically anything or else she will yell at me. My mother does absolutely nothing about it and doesn't care. My sister is very very manipulative so my mom only believes her. Whenever I tell her about it, she guilt trips me and tells me "I hAvE rAiSeD yOu My EnTiRe LiFe So HoW dArE yOu SpEaK tHaT wAy To Me?".My sister has given me severe depression. I have been locked up in my room for 2 weeks now cause she will yell at me if I step anywhere near the living room/dining table. You may also be thinking is that my mother is toxic, but that is not true. Just 3 weeks ago my mom tested positive for COVID-19 and I showed a little symptoms so my sister was isolated in her room. And to say that it was the most peacfull week we both had is an UNDERSTATEMENT!! We legit had so much fun, stayed up late at night watching tv, and had fun. Sure, we did have some arguments, but those were just regular mother-son arguments.Now that my sister is out of isolation, she has become even worser than ever. Before it used to be just my sister, but now my mother has also gotten involved in it too. The only reason my mom has gotten involved is because my sister is just way too manipulative. Right now as I am writing this, my sister is victomozing herself FOR LITERALLY NO REASON. Whenever I complain about her, she automatically has to come crying and say its a lie. And guess who my mother believes more? Yup, my sister. Just today my mom bought my sister her own 60" tv which she put in the living room and I am not even allowed to watch it! So guys, I am just trying to be patient so I can one day move out. Even though I am too ugly to ever get a job, even if I don't have a car, and even if it'll take me years to move out, I'll just keep being patient cause one day it'll be over.TL;DR: Toxic and manipulative sister has turned our household toxic and ruined my life.