Is the initial spark in straight female attraction in response to whether the woman vibes with how a man socially expresses himself and his story?

I’m a man and I think I recently may have come a bit closer to understanding some parts of female attraction. I think it all comes down to the ‘types’ men and women are attracted to. I never really liked talking about my attraction in terms of types. I’ve always liked to think I was more into the individual quirks that set someone apart than the bullshit social trends someone follows. But I know there are trends that I am attracted to more. I think with men the types we are attracted to tend to be very physical in nature. Maybe Guy A likes skinny girls the most and Guy B likes chubby girls the most.

With women I think this typing process tends to be much more complicated. They don’t tend to be all about muscular guys vs. fluffy guys. Or maybe even tall guys vs. short guys. Maybe these things can play a role, but not even close to what they do to men I think. It is more of a process of liking the persona that the person emanates in a confident manner. It’s all about how they socially express themselves. So women mostly decide what they like based on how confidently and consistently someone does ‘their thing’ and whether they vibe with that ‘thing.’ In other words, it’s all about style and taste and telling your story.

Am I way off?

Submitted February 12, 2020 at 12:15AM

I’m a man and I think I recently may have come a bit closer to understanding some parts of female attraction. I think it all comes down to the ‘types’ men and women are attracted to. I never really liked talking about my attraction in terms of types. I’ve always liked to think I was more into the individual quirks that set someone apart than the bullshit social trends someone follows. But I know there are trends that I am attracted to more. I think with men the types we are attracted to tend to be very physical in nature. Maybe Guy A likes skinny girls the most and Guy B likes chubby girls the most.With women I think this typing process tends to be much more complicated. They don’t tend to be all about muscular guys vs. fluffy guys. Or maybe even tall guys vs. short guys. Maybe these things can play a role, but not even close to what they do to men I think. It is more of a process of liking the persona that the person emanates in a confident manner. It’s all about how they socially express themselves. So women mostly decide what they like based on how confidently and consistently someone does ‘their thing’ and whether they vibe with that ‘thing.’ In other words, it’s all about style and taste and telling your story.Am I way off?