Would it be embarassing or weird if I [17M] asked my cousin [14F] if she wanted to spend a weekend with me?

I don't have a lot of friends and the ones I have I don't spend a lot of time with. I only have two cousins. One is 20 and I've wanted to become her friend but if that doesn't work (I will continue trying to become her friend for at least a little over a month), I will end it using an exit bag, alternatively, I could try to become friends with my younger cousin. My cousins live 4-5 hours away from me, however I can take a bus to their house on Fridays after my internship is over and then come home on the Sunday. However I'm afraid of asking my cousin if we could spend a weekend together. I'm thinking I could watch her play football with her team, or we could play video games together or watch a movie. I've done those things before with her. but I know I'd just feel horrible for asking her if she said no.

She did tell me before when I referred to her as a friend "no we're cousins" and when I asked her why we couldn't become friends, she told me because cousins are better, and when I asked her why she just told me it's better, but I think she just said that to not make me sad.

TL;DR Would it be embarassing or weird if I [17M] asked my cousin [14F] if she wanted to spend a weekend with me?



Submitted January 13, 2020 at 11:52PM

I don't have a lot of friends and the ones I have I don't spend a lot of time with. I only have two cousins. One is 20 and I've wanted to become her friend but if that doesn't work (I will continue trying to become her friend for at least a little over a month), I will end it using an exit bag, alternatively, I could try to become friends with my younger cousin. My cousins live 4-5 hours away from me, however I can take a bus to their house on Fridays after my internship is over and then come home on the Sunday. However I'm afraid of asking my cousin if we could spend a weekend together. I'm thinking I could watch her play football with her team, or we could play video games together or watch a movie. I've done those things before with her. but I know I'd just feel horrible for asking her if she said no.She did tell me before when I referred to her as a friend "no we're cousins" and when I asked her why we couldn't become friends, she told me because cousins are better, and when I asked her why she just told me it's better, but I think she just said that to not make me sad.TL;DR Would it be embarassing or weird if I [17M] asked my cousin [14F] if she wanted to spend a weekend with me?

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