breaking up now to prevent future heartbreak?

I (22/M) have been with my girlfriend (21/F) for 2 years or so, and it has mostly been going good. But we are gonna graduate from college in a year and most probably won't end up in close proximity, and long distance is not an option for either of us, so we will most likely break up at some point. Problem is I told her if we know we will break up in the near future, we better do it now since there is no point in going on, but she says that we should enjoy every last bit of time we have together. I very much enjoy my time with her so I do want to spend it with her but I know this is going to make the breakup harder later on. Any advice/experience???

Submitted January 21, 2020 at 12:27AM

I (22/M) have been with my girlfriend (21/F) for 2 years or so, and it has mostly been going good. But we are gonna graduate from college in a year and most probably won't end up in close proximity, and long distance is not an option for either of us, so we will most likely break up at some point. Problem is I told her if we know we will break up in the near future, we better do it now since there is no point in going on, but she says that we should enjoy every last bit of time we have together. I very much enjoy my time with her so I do want to spend it with her but I know this is going to make the breakup harder later on. Any advice/experience???