Should (22M) wait for this girl (22F)?

Basically been seeing someone for over 2 months but I left midway through because I wanted to focus on my career. Few weeks later, I asked for her back. She accepted. We laid out the ground rules. We’d take it slow. And we’d be exclusive. Not bad, at least on paper but get this. It’s almost like she doesn’t want to talk/see me...at all. We went on a date last weekend, which was incredibly awkward. She was on her phone. Kind of dazed out. Barely listening. Didn’t find me as funny as before. I’d make this girl laugh into tears and now she just...chuckles.

So I’ve kept my distance. Remained exclusive for about over 2 weeks now. But what doesn’t make sense is that I’m exclusive to someone who doesn’t even talk to me. Within the last few weeks, she’s reached out once (which was yesterday) and once I started to put more personality in my texts, her responses became cold. So I left it at that.

I want to make this work. It was really great when we both clicked. But it confuses me that I’m staying exclusive to someone who treats me worse than an acquaintance. But at the same time I don’t want to leave because I don’t want her thinking I didn’t want this to work. Because I do!

TL; DR Seeing a girl for two months. Left midway through. I came back. Wanted to take things slow. Agreed to be exclusive. Yet, now she rarely talks to me. Confused as to why I’m singling myself out to someone who won’t give me the light of day. Help!

Submitted September 29, 2019 at 11:38PM

Basically been seeing someone for over 2 months but I left midway through because I wanted to focus on my career. Few weeks later, I asked for her back. She accepted. We laid out the ground rules. We’d take it slow. And we’d be exclusive. Not bad, at least on paper but get this. It’s almost like she doesn’t want to talk/see me...at all. We went on a date last weekend, which was incredibly awkward. She was on her phone. Kind of dazed out. Barely listening. Didn’t find me as funny as before. I’d make this girl laugh into tears and now she just...chuckles.So I’ve kept my distance. Remained exclusive for about over 2 weeks now. But what doesn’t make sense is that I’m exclusive to someone who doesn’t even talk to me. Within the last few weeks, she’s reached out once (which was yesterday) and once I started to put more personality in my texts, her responses became cold. So I left it at that.I want to make this work. It was really great when we both clicked. But it confuses me that I’m staying exclusive to someone who treats me worse than an acquaintance. But at the same time I don’t want to leave because I don’t want her thinking I didn’t want this to work. Because I do!TL; DR Seeing a girl for two months. Left midway through. I came back. Wanted to take things slow. Agreed to be exclusive. Yet, now she rarely talks to me. Confused as to why I’m singling myself out to someone who won’t give me the light of day. Help!