Should I text her?

I guess this isn’t exactly dating but the advice would still be appreciated...

Back in grade 12 when I moved schools I thought this one girl Laura was really attractive. I never really spoke to her initially but we became good friends throughout the year. We hung out a lot and talked on the phone a lot too. I never really had a crush on her. After grade 12 she took another half year in school and I went to college. As time went on we talked less and less but remained good friends. Once she had gotten a new boyfriend naturally she was spending more time with him and less and less with me which was OK. However, she kept blowing me off and it came to where she blew off my birthday which was the breaking point for me. When she tried making plans to hangout I kind of her dry texted her and gave no interest. We stopped talking. About a year later I texted if she wanted to hangout which she happily agreed. Found out she was single and some feelings for her came back. I asked her out a week later and she said she didn’t feel the same and she was too busy and all at the time due to college. I kind of just stopped taking to her because I didn’t want to make it awkward but I understood it none the less. I haven’t takes to her in months would it be a good idea to text her as friends?

Submitted July 07, 2019 at 12:16AM

I guess this isn’t exactly dating but the advice would still be appreciated...Back in grade 12 when I moved schools I thought this one girl Laura was really attractive. I never really spoke to her initially but we became good friends throughout the year. We hung out a lot and talked on the phone a lot too. I never really had a crush on her. After grade 12 she took another half year in school and I went to college. As time went on we talked less and less but remained good friends. Once she had gotten a new boyfriend naturally she was spending more time with him and less and less with me which was OK. However, she kept blowing me off and it came to where she blew off my birthday which was the breaking point for me. When she tried making plans to hangout I kind of her dry texted her and gave no interest. We stopped talking. About a year later I texted if she wanted to hangout which she happily agreed. Found out she was single and some feelings for her came back. I asked her out a week later and she said she didn’t feel the same and she was too busy and all at the time due to college. I kind of just stopped taking to her because I didn’t want to make it awkward but I understood it none the less. I haven’t takes to her in months would it be a good idea to text her as friends?