Guy I'm seeing "loved" ex's Facebook post-should I be concerned?

Any and all advice would be appreciated!

I [26F] have recently started seeing someone. [27M] Thus far, it has been great. I really like him, and I'm excited to see where it could potentially go.

That said, this is my first relationship. (which it is not officially, but for the purposes of this post I'll refer to it as such.) I have a physical disability, and it turns the off the vast majority of guys my age. I've been on dates before, and had my fair share of hookups in college, but this is the first time someone seems interested in pursuing something more with me. It's exciting, but it's also terrifying. I've been disappointed so many times before in the past, and I really don't want this to come to be just another disappointment.

Anyway, the reason for this post. Last night we went out on a date, and when I went to bed later that night I went on Facebook. I should add here that he was in a relationship until January of this year. He hasn't gotten into too much detail about it, but I've gathered that he's the one who ended the relationship. I wanted to see if I could find out a little more info about this girl, so I went to her profile. I saw that my boyfriend (again, going for simplicity here) loved one of her posts two days ago. It was a funny post. It wasn't like it was a sexy photo or she was baring her soul but it rattled me a little.

I guess what I'm asking is, should I be nervous about that? Or is it a nonissue?



Submitted June 29, 2019 at 12:09AM

Any and all advice would be appreciated!I [26F] have recently started seeing someone. [27M] Thus far, it has been great. I really like him, and I'm excited to see where it could potentially go.That said, this is my first relationship. (which it is not officially, but for the purposes of this post I'll refer to it as such.) I have a physical disability, and it turns the off the vast majority of guys my age. I've been on dates before, and had my fair share of hookups in college, but this is the first time someone seems interested in pursuing something more with me. It's exciting, but it's also terrifying. I've been disappointed so many times before in the past, and I really don't want this to come to be just another disappointment.Anyway, the reason for this post. Last night we went out on a date, and when I went to bed later that night I went on Facebook. I should add here that he was in a relationship until January of this year. He hasn't gotten into too much detail about it, but I've gathered that he's the one who ended the relationship. I wanted to see if I could find out a little more info about this girl, so I went to her profile. I saw that my boyfriend (again, going for simplicity here) loved one of her posts two days ago. It was a funny post. It wasn't like it was a sexy photo or she was baring her soul but it rattled me a little.I guess what I'm asking is, should I be nervous about that? Or is it a nonissue?
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