Not sure if the girl wants to go on a second date
So, I met someone online, and after talking a bit, she casually asked what's my preferred date spot, and we agreed on a place to meet up.
She rescheduled what we initially planned for, which I found reasonable, because things happen, plans change.
So we finally met on the day and time she suggested. Our conversation kinda went like a therapy session with probably a bit too much depth for a first date. She and I are in the same profession and have similar career goals, so the entire time kind of went by in that topic only.
After parting our ways and reaching home, I texted her this:
Me: Hope you got home safe. I had an awesome time with you, hopefully we can see each other again soon! (If you feel like it too, obviously :) )
Her: Yup! Got home safe! Thanks for checking up on me ☺️
Me: 👍 😄 Have a good night!
Her: No response
Now, I think our date went relatively okay, but the fact that she stalled my proposal of going out again makes me think she isn't interested. However, the emoji is a bit confusing.
Should I have been more specific when asking about going out again? I don't know if she wants the conversation to keep going, and I don't wanna pester someone who isn't really interested.
Any thoughts?
Submitted December 02, 2021 at 11:50PM
So, I met someone online, and after talking a bit, she casually asked what's my preferred date spot, and we agreed on a place to meet up.She rescheduled what we initially planned for, which I found reasonable, because things happen, plans change.So we finally met on the day and time she suggested. Our conversation kinda went like a therapy session with probably a bit too much depth for a first date. She and I are in the same profession and have similar career goals, so the entire time kind of went by in that topic only.After parting our ways and reaching home, I texted her this:Me: Hope you got home safe. I had an awesome time with you, hopefully we can see each other again soon! (If you feel like it too, obviously :) )Her: Yup! Got home safe! Thanks for checking up on me ☺️Me: 👍 😄 Have a good night!Her: No responseNow, I think our date went relatively okay, but the fact that she stalled my proposal of going out again makes me think she isn't interested. However, the emoji is a bit confusing.Should I have been more specific when asking about going out again? I don't know if she wants the conversation to keep going, and I don't wanna pester someone who isn't really interested.Any thoughts?
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