Can I overcome sex phobia?
Hello everyone, I’m a 25 year old man who has never been sexually active but I’ve been thinking recently about how if a miracle did occur and I met someone who was sexually interested in me that I’m too scared to actually have sex. I would be overcome with performance anxiety due to both lack of knowledge from being an ‘older’ virgin and the general anxiety I have that would cause me to either not work or work way too quickly. Also, I couldn’t get naked with them as I’d be too scared to be seen without clothes, I don’t even like wearing shorts sleeves because of my weird looking body. All of this would mean that I’d have to turn down a potential partner as it would be such an unpleasant experience for both of us
Is it possible to fully overcome these fears and anxieties and is it even worth trying given that I can’t foresee it ever being a problem in the future?
Submitted December 03, 2021 at 12:53AM
Hello everyone, I’m a 25 year old man who has never been sexually active but I’ve been thinking recently about how if a miracle did occur and I met someone who was sexually interested in me that I’m too scared to actually have sex. I would be overcome with performance anxiety due to both lack of knowledge from being an ‘older’ virgin and the general anxiety I have that would cause me to either not work or work way too quickly. Also, I couldn’t get naked with them as I’d be too scared to be seen without clothes, I don’t even like wearing shorts sleeves because of my weird looking body. All of this would mean that I’d have to turn down a potential partner as it would be such an unpleasant experience for both of usIs it possible to fully overcome these fears and anxieties and is it even worth trying given that I can’t foresee it ever being a problem in the future?
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