Is this coercion and rape?

A girl I hooked up with with a girl who initially said she wanted to have sex and seemed so insistent on doing so. When I showed up it was a trick to get me to come because she said she didn't want sex which caught me off guard. I insisted we have sex but I never made any threat of any kind to her if she didn't agree, and I did not offer her anything in return for sex, all I did was be insistent. She was super needy for a relationship and honestly emotionally unstable and clearly manipulative to get me to come. She was doing this in order to get a sense of validation, and was really hoping to get validation from me by liking her sexually. In the end she agreed to have sex with me, but it seemed like she only did because she felt the need to impress me and to get my validation. Even though she did not really want to have sex, she only accepted to it because she thought it was what she needed to do to be in a relationship with me, I did not put that pressure on her. Now later on she says that I raped her. Is she in the right here? Was her agreeing to sex with me because she felt the need for my approval rape? Did I sexually coerce her into it by being insistent on the fact that that's what she told me she wanted when she had said no at first? Or was it not coercion because I had never offered anything in return and I never made any threat to force her into it as I was only being insistent?

Submitted September 20, 2021 at 12:47AM

A girl I hooked up with with a girl who initially said she wanted to have sex and seemed so insistent on doing so. When I showed up it was a trick to get me to come because she said she didn't want sex which caught me off guard. I insisted we have sex but I never made any threat of any kind to her if she didn't agree, and I did not offer her anything in return for sex, all I did was be insistent. She was super needy for a relationship and honestly emotionally unstable and clearly manipulative to get me to come. She was doing this in order to get a sense of validation, and was really hoping to get validation from me by liking her sexually. In the end she agreed to have sex with me, but it seemed like she only did because she felt the need to impress me and to get my validation. Even though she did not really want to have sex, she only accepted to it because she thought it was what she needed to do to be in a relationship with me, I did not put that pressure on her. Now later on she says that I raped her. Is she in the right here? Was her agreeing to sex with me because she felt the need for my approval rape? Did I sexually coerce her into it by being insistent on the fact that that's what she told me she wanted when she had said no at first? Or was it not coercion because I had never offered anything in return and I never made any threat to force her into it as I was only being insistent?