im confused about a guy

So I matched with a guy on tinder a while ago, and I wrote to him first. We started writing long messages to each other and the conversation flowed well. We got to know each other somewhat and I think he's a really cool guy and that we have a lot in common and similar interests. For some reason neither of us were flirty or insinuated any attraction. It was all in a friendly manner even though I think he's good-looking and I'm not on tinder to make friends exactly. So we talked a lot consistently for a month and then he asked to meet me in person. The way he asked was a bit strange, he said something like: you seem like a sensible person, it would be fun to meet you.

We decided to take a walk in nature. We met and we got along well, walking and talking pretty comfortably and I feel like we clicked. But there was mostly a friendly vibe. He asked me a lot of questions and seemed interested in what I had to say. At one point it got a bit windy and he offered a jacket, and we were crossing this fallen tree over a stream and he offered me to take his hand. Also he referred to some details in our conversations on tinder. So he's paying attention. After we had been walking for a while we got coffee and he paid for both of us without asking. we sat down at a bench and talked some more. After about three hours we decided to go home, and he drove me with his car. I felt like we were super comfortable with each other and like we had met before that day, kind of crazy to me. I don't know if he felt the same. Then we exchanged numbers and facebook. After our date we haven't been talking really, and I wonder if we're going to see each other again, but I don't want to seem too eager. Since I do like him and could see him as more than friends I regret not being more flirty and let him know that I find him attractive.

Are we doomed because there's too much friendliness and not enough flirting, could he still be into me and what should I do now? Also would a guy really talk this much and want to see me, show interest in who I am if he didn't want to be more than friends, being from tinder and all?

Thanks if you read all of this!

Submitted May 20, 2020 at 11:55PM

So I matched with a guy on tinder a while ago, and I wrote to him first. We started writing long messages to each other and the conversation flowed well. We got to know each other somewhat and I think he's a really cool guy and that we have a lot in common and similar interests. For some reason neither of us were flirty or insinuated any attraction. It was all in a friendly manner even though I think he's good-looking and I'm not on tinder to make friends exactly. So we talked a lot consistently for a month and then he asked to meet me in person. The way he asked was a bit strange, he said something like: you seem like a sensible person, it would be fun to meet you.We decided to take a walk in nature. We met and we got along well, walking and talking pretty comfortably and I feel like we clicked. But there was mostly a friendly vibe. He asked me a lot of questions and seemed interested in what I had to say. At one point it got a bit windy and he offered a jacket, and we were crossing this fallen tree over a stream and he offered me to take his hand. Also he referred to some details in our conversations on tinder. So he's paying attention. After we had been walking for a while we got coffee and he paid for both of us without asking. we sat down at a bench and talked some more. After about three hours we decided to go home, and he drove me with his car. I felt like we were super comfortable with each other and like we had met before that day, kind of crazy to me. I don't know if he felt the same. Then we exchanged numbers and facebook. After our date we haven't been talking really, and I wonder if we're going to see each other again, but I don't want to seem too eager. Since I do like him and could see him as more than friends I regret not being more flirty and let him know that I find him attractive.Are we doomed because there's too much friendliness and not enough flirting, could he still be into me and what should I do now? Also would a guy really talk this much and want to see me, show interest in who I am if he didn't want to be more than friends, being from tinder and all?Thanks if you read all of this!