Things started out perfectly, however the epidemic put everything on hold, so did us. What's the best move in this scenario?

First and foremost I would like to point out that I am very aware of the fact that, a lot of people have so much bigger problems in this tragic situation, and have already sacrificed a lot more than a fling.
I genuinely hope we can still talk about this, without me being selfish or disrespectful.

Recently (in mid February) I (21M) have joined a college community group where I met a girl (19F). We saw each other once a week, when the group came together. However 3 weeks in, the group organized kind of a team building camp which lasted 2 days. We flirted there a lot, then on the 2nd day we were kissing, and holding hands. After the camp we kept contact on social media, two days later I was introduced to her friends, had a nightout, and eventually slept together (hadn't had a sex tho).

Now, with the spread of corona virus, we have both decided to stay at home, and avoid hanging out with anyone just for fun. We try to reach out to eachother via Snapchat/Messenger, but I'm really afraid it'll break off, since just as quarantine, our days aren't quite interesting atm, and I wouldn't consider us so close that we would keep texting for days, because we were just getting to know each other. She has also mentioned that she doesn't really like texting much, and her friends told me that I should be proud of myself that I can get to talk to her that often. However it also seems like that she's still interested though, and we've been texting everyday once or twice a day, since then.

Can you guys give me some advice how should I approach this situation, without "exhausting" this relationship, and being dull? Should I put everything on hold, and hope that when things go back to normal, we can continue where we left off?



Submitted March 24, 2020 at 11:19PM

First and foremost I would like to point out that I am very aware of the fact that, a lot of people have so much bigger problems in this tragic situation, and have already sacrificed a lot more than a fling.I genuinely hope we can still talk about this, without me being selfish or disrespectful.Recently (in mid February) I (21M) have joined a college community group where I met a girl (19F). We saw each other once a week, when the group came together. However 3 weeks in, the group organized kind of a team building camp which lasted 2 days. We flirted there a lot, then on the 2nd day we were kissing, and holding hands. After the camp we kept contact on social media, two days later I was introduced to her friends, had a nightout, and eventually slept together (hadn't had a sex tho).Now, with the spread of corona virus, we have both decided to stay at home, and avoid hanging out with anyone just for fun. We try to reach out to eachother via Snapchat/Messenger, but I'm really afraid it'll break off, since just as quarantine, our days aren't quite interesting atm, and I wouldn't consider us so close that we would keep texting for days, because we were just getting to know each other. She has also mentioned that she doesn't really like texting much, and her friends told me that I should be proud of myself that I can get to talk to her that often. However it also seems like that she's still interested though, and we've been texting everyday once or twice a day, since then.Can you guys give me some advice how should I approach this situation, without "exhausting" this relationship, and being dull? Should I put everything on hold, and hope that when things go back to normal, we can continue where we left off?

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