Need advice on persuing my dream girl

I met a girl who is checking every checklist that I have & she's the closest that you can get to a 10 base on her personality, looks, charisma, humor, goals, etc. Basically everything that I've every desired from a girl.

I'm [23 M] she's [19 F] we met at campus. Ever since day one we were both checking each other out as we crossed paths so after the 3rd of it being this way I approached her. We kinda talk but it wasn't going anywhere until we actually hanged out at the library & we just click instantly like zero dry conversations. She was very touchy & attentive to everything I had to say. But there was one thing she didn't like about me which was that I didn't respond to her within 4-8 hour time span. Why? Honestly I've been on a self improving journey for the pass 2 years that I really hadn't persue girls like that so I was still in that just get laid & get out mindset.

She got mad at me for not texting to her one day & everything went downhill from there. I realized that she was actually into me like into into me & when I saw that I was losing my chance to thrive with my dream girl. I made the huge mistake of acting needy, like I knew that I was acting that way but I honestly hadn't felt that into a girl in about 4 years so couldn't handle my emotions. So we stopped talking which was understandable. 2 days later she hit me up telling me how she saw me at the library looking all professional & focus on my craft. (she told me before that one of the things that she looked up to was just how smart I was & the focus that I have) so we talked over the weekend & everything was going real good like maybe too good... I'm not sure cause I was actually putting in the effort when it came to talking to her like instead of 4-8hours I was replying withing an hour & 80% of the time she would reply right away sometimes even too fast that I couldn't properly type a response cause she was replying as I was sending texts. When she came back she told me that she missed just talking to me. She also was acting really interested in me like she told me that she would like for me to meet her parents to see if we they were going to approve of me & even offer me to stay with them since they live 2 hours away from campus, she sent me a "I'm gonna be this type of wife qoute" without me ever bringing up something related it to it.

Once again she got mad at me & told me the same thing to stop talking to her. Why? B/c we just couldn't figured out how to add each other on snapchat since I blocked her & unbloked her the first time that we stop talking just cause I didnt want her to keep orbiting my snap if she wasn't going to be apart of my life. She straight up told me that she doesn't give second chances when she showed me her block list but here she was trying to add me again for about an hour. After the hour of both of us trying I sent the snapchat team an email & just told her that "we were going to let them deal with it but if it doesn't work oh well" since it was most likely a server issue. So that's when she got mad cause of the "oh well" so she texted me the usual "stop talking to me" "bye". So that's what I did I didn't reply to her at all. Later that night about 6 hours later she texted me again saying "tomorrow don't come up to me, we'll leave it as is" & after 2 hours I texted her "K" "Bet"

The next day came & we crossed paths but I didn't go up to her since I knew that was what drew her away from me. She saw me she looked down to the side & smile. I saw her but I acted like I didn't acknowledge her presence, honestly that was the most heartbreaking thing that I've ever done cause she the one I truly believe that we deserve each other. The next 2 days we didnt crossed path with eachother cause I was purposely arriving at the last minute so I didn't have to see her. On that 2nd day tho there is a spot at the library where I sit down after my classes end & that's where I do my work. But guess who was sitting there.. In the same table, the same chair. My dream girl... So I approach her & in a jokingly manner said "ohh so now your sitting on my spot huh" I'm very sarcastic & just like to have fun, she knows this cause shes the same way, like we are a replica of each other's personalities, she's a bit nicer tho like when she jokes around with me she keeps it nice enough that it won't hurt me. The look that she gave me completely devasted it me.. She looked hurt... Like really really hurt & I have never seen her like this so she just told me "okay go ahead take your spot" & she packed her things and left. I wanted to go after her so bad but the last time I did it didn't go that well thats when she told me that even tho I was amazing she wasn't into how much I was insisting. I just wanted to hug her & kiss her again cause I felt sooo bad even tho she was that one that cut contact with me.

Honestly I just want her but I'm not too sure how to go about it & I know she wants me cause she has given me all of the signs plus today when she was sitting in the same spot just confirmed everything for me. Cause if she really wasn't trying to talk to me or see me she wouldn't have done that. Atleast that's what I think.

I guess the question is how should I go about it? How should I approach her again & how should I do it? Should I hug her like we used to hug whenever we saw each other or should I keep my space... I'm such a clown that I'm gonna tell her "you know when Beyonce says if you like her put a ring on it" & them I'm gonna pull out a ring pop. She loves when I'm just being myself & throwing dumb jokes about random things. So it won't be cringey I think it'll just light up the mood. Why am I doing that cause she's the one & the day that she sent the picture about the way she was going to be as a wife I told her "oh so you already falling for me" (she said this to me the day before so it was a little call back) "do you also want the right, the house, the kids, the dogs and the minivan" she told that that yeah she wanted all of that except the minivan.

I really appreciate you if you take the time to read through all of this. Thanks

Submitted February 05, 2020 at 11:39PM

I met a girl who is checking every checklist that I have & she's the closest that you can get to a 10 base on her personality, looks, charisma, humor, goals, etc. Basically everything that I've every desired from a girl.I'm [23 M] she's [19 F] we met at campus. Ever since day one we were both checking each other out as we crossed paths so after the 3rd of it being this way I approached her. We kinda talk but it wasn't going anywhere until we actually hanged out at the library & we just click instantly like zero dry conversations. She was very touchy & attentive to everything I had to say. But there was one thing she didn't like about me which was that I didn't respond to her within 4-8 hour time span. Why? Honestly I've been on a self improving journey for the pass 2 years that I really hadn't persue girls like that so I was still in that just get laid & get out mindset.She got mad at me for not texting to her one day & everything went downhill from there. I realized that she was actually into me like into into me & when I saw that I was losing my chance to thrive with my dream girl. I made the huge mistake of acting needy, like I knew that I was acting that way but I honestly hadn't felt that into a girl in about 4 years so couldn't handle my emotions. So we stopped talking which was understandable. 2 days later she hit me up telling me how she saw me at the library looking all professional & focus on my craft. (she told me before that one of the things that she looked up to was just how smart I was & the focus that I have) so we talked over the weekend & everything was going real good like maybe too good... I'm not sure cause I was actually putting in the effort when it came to talking to her like instead of 4-8hours I was replying withing an hour & 80% of the time she would reply right away sometimes even too fast that I couldn't properly type a response cause she was replying as I was sending texts. When she came back she told me that she missed just talking to me. She also was acting really interested in me like she told me that she would like for me to meet her parents to see if we they were going to approve of me & even offer me to stay with them since they live 2 hours away from campus, she sent me a "I'm gonna be this type of wife qoute" without me ever bringing up something related it to it.Once again she got mad at me & told me the same thing to stop talking to her. Why? B/c we just couldn't figured out how to add each other on snapchat since I blocked her & unbloked her the first time that we stop talking just cause I didnt want her to keep orbiting my snap if she wasn't going to be apart of my life. She straight up told me that she doesn't give second chances when she showed me her block list but here she was trying to add me again for about an hour. After the hour of both of us trying I sent the snapchat team an email & just told her that "we were going to let them deal with it but if it doesn't work oh well" since it was most likely a server issue. So that's when she got mad cause of the "oh well" so she texted me the usual "stop talking to me" "bye". So that's what I did I didn't reply to her at all. Later that night about 6 hours later she texted me again saying "tomorrow don't come up to me, we'll leave it as is" & after 2 hours I texted her "K" "Bet"The next day came & we crossed paths but I didn't go up to her since I knew that was what drew her away from me. She saw me she looked down to the side & smile. I saw her but I acted like I didn't acknowledge her presence, honestly that was the most heartbreaking thing that I've ever done cause she the one I truly believe that we deserve each other. The next 2 days we didnt crossed path with eachother cause I was purposely arriving at the last minute so I didn't have to see her. On that 2nd day tho there is a spot at the library where I sit down after my classes end & that's where I do my work. But guess who was sitting there.. In the same table, the same chair. My dream girl... So I approach her & in a jokingly manner said "ohh so now your sitting on my spot huh" I'm very sarcastic & just like to have fun, she knows this cause shes the same way, like we are a replica of each other's personalities, she's a bit nicer tho like when she jokes around with me she keeps it nice enough that it won't hurt me. The look that she gave me completely devasted it me.. She looked hurt... Like really really hurt & I have never seen her like this so she just told me "okay go ahead take your spot" & she packed her things and left. I wanted to go after her so bad but the last time I did it didn't go that well thats when she told me that even tho I was amazing she wasn't into how much I was insisting. I just wanted to hug her & kiss her again cause I felt sooo bad even tho she was that one that cut contact with me.Honestly I just want her but I'm not too sure how to go about it & I know she wants me cause she has given me all of the signs plus today when she was sitting in the same spot just confirmed everything for me. Cause if she really wasn't trying to talk to me or see me she wouldn't have done that. Atleast that's what I think.I guess the question is how should I go about it? How should I approach her again & how should I do it? Should I hug her like we used to hug whenever we saw each other or should I keep my space... I'm such a clown that I'm gonna tell her "you know when Beyonce says if you like her put a ring on it" & them I'm gonna pull out a ring pop. She loves when I'm just being myself & throwing dumb jokes about random things. So it won't be cringey I think it'll just light up the mood. Why am I doing that cause she's the one & the day that she sent the picture about the way she was going to be as a wife I told her "oh so you already falling for me" (she said this to me the day before so it was a little call back) "do you also want the right, the house, the kids, the dogs and the minivan" she told that that yeah she wanted all of that except the minivan.I really appreciate you if you take the time to read through all of this. Thanks