Dating someone with the idea of changing them.

There is this cute girl I am thinking of starting to date, I know shes interested in me and I do find her cute but... shes a little chubby. I feel like she would be absolutely gorgeous if she was able to lose some weight. As someone who was pretty fat myself and lost weight to look how I look now. I feel super confident and feel very good about myself. Is it fair for me to date someone but already have plans to change their habits. I don't think i'd continue dating her if she didn't workout with me tho tbh... nothing against fat people but I just want to be around those who are active and fit. (Its what I find attractive).

Submitted February 12, 2020 at 11:06PM

There is this cute girl I am thinking of starting to date, I know shes interested in me and I do find her cute but... shes a little chubby. I feel like she would be absolutely gorgeous if she was able to lose some weight. As someone who was pretty fat myself and lost weight to look how I look now. I feel super confident and feel very good about myself. Is it fair for me to date someone but already have plans to change their habits. I don't think i'd continue dating her if she didn't workout with me tho tbh... nothing against fat people but I just want to be around those who are active and fit. (Its what I find attractive).