Are you comfortable with your parts?

Sex such a beautiful thing yet can be such a taboo topic. Some are embarrassed to talk about it while some can't wait to get down to the juicy bits. So let's get to story time, growing up i felt like sex was just something to do like chores in a relationship i enjoyed it to an extent, even tho I looked at it in that way i enjoyed writing erotic stories and spent my time on the net just reading up about sex, different positions,kegel,role play,etc .

I wasn't big into porn either don't get me wrong there's some good porn out there but i prefer to create my own stage, i had my own ideas of what i wanted and just imaging how i wanted to feel, so masturbating was the best sexual experience for me, i know some say once you get yourself accustom to masturbating it's hard for someone else to compete with, to me that wasn't the case cause there wasn't any contenders. Seems all guys wanted was to just cum and to hell with your vagina, yes most time disappointing but hey a girl can fix herself 😉.

I dated one guy when it comes to the bedroom you dare not do anything kinky he forbids it and if i did anything out of place he calls me all these nasty names made me felt like the lowest thing on the earth, that played with my mental health and so i hid certain parts of me, so happy that relationship was over with emotional abuse aint no joke.

I came out of that relationship with my self image damaged it took some time for me to feel better about myself and to find someone who accepted me, well damn looking for that someone toke years like literary years at the same time i was improving myself, which i recommend everyone to do reflect on your life every now and then just don't stick in one place in life , growth is necessary once you grow you'll see things clearer, attract better things in life and you'll be more on the alert for intruders ( unnecessary, no good, dramatic people in other word waste people) i know you maybe asking what they gotta to do with your intimate parts. I can tell you once you cleanse those negative energies out of you , you will feel a lot different like good different, literally lighter.

like stop fucking with them like i mean literally stop fucking with people that makes you feel worst after that 1-4 mins of pleasure and then there's friend, family or acquaintance that doesn't give two shits about you just fake smiles and love.

It's easier said than done trust me but everyday keep telling yourself you deserve the best and you deserve peace it's all about balance so find that balance, be yourself unapologetically, explore yourself, love yourself, touch yourself, be your best self,show the world who you are , take risks, you wouldn't fully know who you are if you don't step out that box try new things whether it work or not that's what makes you, be self aware and surround yourself with open minded people and never hide who you are.

Submitted January 31, 2020 at 11:04PM

Sex such a beautiful thing yet can be such a taboo topic. Some are embarrassed to talk about it while some can't wait to get down to the juicy bits. So let's get to story time, growing up i felt like sex was just something to do like chores in a relationship i enjoyed it to an extent, even tho I looked at it in that way i enjoyed writing erotic stories and spent my time on the net just reading up about sex, different positions,kegel,role play,etc .I wasn't big into porn either don't get me wrong there's some good porn out there but i prefer to create my own stage, i had my own ideas of what i wanted and just imaging how i wanted to feel, so masturbating was the best sexual experience for me, i know some say once you get yourself accustom to masturbating it's hard for someone else to compete with, to me that wasn't the case cause there wasn't any contenders. Seems all guys wanted was to just cum and to hell with your vagina, yes most time disappointing but hey a girl can fix herself 😉.I dated one guy when it comes to the bedroom you dare not do anything kinky he forbids it and if i did anything out of place he calls me all these nasty names made me felt like the lowest thing on the earth, that played with my mental health and so i hid certain parts of me, so happy that relationship was over with emotional abuse aint no joke.I came out of that relationship with my self image damaged it took some time for me to feel better about myself and to find someone who accepted me, well damn looking for that someone toke years like literary years at the same time i was improving myself, which i recommend everyone to do reflect on your life every now and then just don't stick in one place in life , growth is necessary once you grow you'll see things clearer, attract better things in life and you'll be more on the alert for intruders ( unnecessary, no good, dramatic people in other word waste people) i know you maybe asking what they gotta to do with your intimate parts. I can tell you once you cleanse those negative energies out of you , you will feel a lot different like good different, literally lighter.like stop fucking with them like i mean literally stop fucking with people that makes you feel worst after that 1-4 mins of pleasure and then there's friend, family or acquaintance that doesn't give two shits about you just fake smiles and love.It's easier said than done trust me but everyday keep telling yourself you deserve the best and you deserve peace it's all about balance so find that balance, be yourself unapologetically, explore yourself, love yourself, touch yourself, be your best self,show the world who you are , take risks, you wouldn't fully know who you are if you don't step out that box try new things whether it work or not that's what makes you, be self aware and surround yourself with open minded people and never hide who you are.