Sex is getting boring and I don’t know what to do

My bf only likes vanilla sex and i am a really really kinky person. I love having sex with him and he always turns me on no matter what but he’s gotten into a routine while fucking and recently I find that I can’t get off or stop enjoying sex half way and just wait it out until he comes. He knows my kinks but doesn’t feel comfortable / very rarely indulges me with them. I always try my hardest to do his (simple stuff like choking and me being really submissive) and as a sub having to always remind him or ask him to do something takes the fun out of it for me. What should I do?

TLDR; i’m kinky, my bf’s not, and I no longer fully enjoy sex.



Submitted December 07, 2019 at 11:52PM

My bf only likes vanilla sex and i am a really really kinky person. I love having sex with him and he always turns me on no matter what but he’s gotten into a routine while fucking and recently I find that I can’t get off or stop enjoying sex half way and just wait it out until he comes. He knows my kinks but doesn’t feel comfortable / very rarely indulges me with them. I always try my hardest to do his (simple stuff like choking and me being really submissive) and as a sub having to always remind him or ask him to do something takes the fun out of it for me. What should I do?TLDR; i’m kinky, my bf’s not, and I no longer fully enjoy sex.
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