Is she lying about being pregnant?

I was in a relationship with this guy and we were planning to get married. This summer he had left me because he told me he was interested in another girl. Fast forward 3 months he contacts me again out of the blue and tells me how much he regretted what he did and how he wants to start over with me again. We all make mistakes that we regret and he seemed genuinely sorry, so I forgave him and got back together with him. A little while later after we got back together, this girl he previously left me for (they were never in an official relationship apparently and it was short-lived), her sister contacts my boyfriend saying that this girl is pregnant. However the sister has been very vague and not giving out any details, and same with the girl. The girl has also made claims to him that she is pregnant, but my boyfriend has not seen any proof of this. She lives in another town 2 hours away and has not even been to see him to discuss this. Furthermore, it is 2 months later and she still refuses to give any details at all as well as her sister. I've tried telling my boyfriend that I believe they are lying to him as they are refusing to give him any details about anything, but I am afraid he is falling for their lies and games as they string him along with no information or proof to back anything up. My boyfriend even mentioned to me that with the way her sister and her told it to him, he doesn't feel it should be trusted. But he continues to stress out as they are not giving him any information. She has not sent him any pictures of a positive pregnancy test, no information from a doctor's appointment, nothing at all. I've began to distance myself from the situation as this is not what I had signed up for when I had gotten back together with him. My intuition is telling me that this girl and her sister are lying to him. After 2 months of being pregnant, there would have been something to show for it. I would like to know other people's honest opinions on this situation and any advice would be appreciated.

Tl;dr Boyfriend left me for another girl (they were not officially dating, and it was short-lived), then we got back together a few months later, and shortly after we got back together this girl claims she is pregnant and her sister says this girl is pregnant too, yet they both haven't given any information or proof and are continuing to refuse to give any information regarding this pregnancy 2 months later.



Submitted October 20, 2019 at 12:14AM

I was in a relationship with this guy and we were planning to get married. This summer he had left me because he told me he was interested in another girl. Fast forward 3 months he contacts me again out of the blue and tells me how much he regretted what he did and how he wants to start over with me again. We all make mistakes that we regret and he seemed genuinely sorry, so I forgave him and got back together with him. A little while later after we got back together, this girl he previously left me for (they were never in an official relationship apparently and it was short-lived), her sister contacts my boyfriend saying that this girl is pregnant. However the sister has been very vague and not giving out any details, and same with the girl. The girl has also made claims to him that she is pregnant, but my boyfriend has not seen any proof of this. She lives in another town 2 hours away and has not even been to see him to discuss this. Furthermore, it is 2 months later and she still refuses to give any details at all as well as her sister. I've tried telling my boyfriend that I believe they are lying to him as they are refusing to give him any details about anything, but I am afraid he is falling for their lies and games as they string him along with no information or proof to back anything up. My boyfriend even mentioned to me that with the way her sister and her told it to him, he doesn't feel it should be trusted. But he continues to stress out as they are not giving him any information. She has not sent him any pictures of a positive pregnancy test, no information from a doctor's appointment, nothing at all. I've began to distance myself from the situation as this is not what I had signed up for when I had gotten back together with him. My intuition is telling me that this girl and her sister are lying to him. After 2 months of being pregnant, there would have been something to show for it. I would like to know other people's honest opinions on this situation and any advice would be appreciated.Tl;dr Boyfriend left me for another girl (they were not officially dating, and it was short-lived), then we got back together a few months later, and shortly after we got back together this girl claims she is pregnant and her sister says this girl is pregnant too, yet they both haven't given any information or proof and are continuing to refuse to give any information regarding this pregnancy 2 months later.
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