Should I (F/32) text my Ex (M/34) for a bootycall?

So, long story short, I (F/32) was seeing a guy (M/34) for 3 months, I fell for him, but I also knew he was no good for me, and I knew there was no long term future with him, but I was attracted to him and even though he had MAJOR red flags I still texted and spent time with him, knowing that this would eventually end. After what I thought was a great weekend he ghosted me. I was upset, because though I knew the relationship would go nowhere, I wasn't ready to say bye yet, I hoped we would still have more fun. I cried for him, i texted him and he never responded. After about a month of sending one text a week, I finally gave up. I tried moving on, I started seeing another guy, slept with this other guy, but i couldn't stop thinking about my ex but I still hoped he would one day text me, not to start a relationship, but maybe for more fun. Fast forward 2 and half months after i last saw him, he texted me out of the blue, on a Monday, in the afternoon (cuz i've read the time that an ex texts you matters), i was shocked, insulted, and happy he texted. I thought about ignoring him, but i realized, this is what i had wanted for the past 2.5 months, so i replied, he acted like nothing happened, so did I, he asked me if i went to some local event that weekend, i said no, i asked if he did, he said no. Then he said "just talking to you and my D is hard", i tried not to show too much excitement, so i said "oh really?" he said yes, then he says "you must be getting lots lately" i said "why do you think that?" he said "cuz you're hot AF". The truth is, i had been getting some, but i didn't want to tell him that yet, incase, he got jealous or hurt that I had and I would push him away, I still planned on telling him (because everyone deserves to know if their sexual partner is with other partners), i tried changing the subject, and "said thanks, what are you doing today?" I realize how that question, specially after what we were just talking about, could be interpreted as basically, asking him to come over, but honestly, i was just trying to avoid answering his previous question and wanted to change the subject. He said he was exhausted, so i realized what he thought i meant when i asked him what he was doing, i asked him "why is that?". Then he didn't reply again until MUCH later at 2am. I never answered him because, i thought, what's the point? that convo was going nowhere, i hoped he would text again, but he didn't, it's now been a week since he texted, and i finally gave in, last night and texted him saying "hey, howsit going?", he saw the message (cuz this all went down on FB Messenger), but he never responded. So now, i'm thinking i lost my chance of a bootycall with him, and yes i still have feelings but trust me when i say, there is NO future with this guy , i don't want to marry him, i don't want his kids, i dont want to meet his family and I don't want him to meet mine, i just want him inside of me because he was great in bed, and i enjoyed spending time with him.

I'm confused as to why he randomly texted me, why he said that things he said, if he didnt want anything to do with me. Also, another side info, is that throughout this past week, i followed him on IG and he requested to follow me back and i approved. Just throwing that bit out there.

So i'm considering texting him next week (this week im on my period) and saying "So...I'm just gonna be honest, i miss your D in my mouth and inside of me."

TL;DR: Should I texted an ex - that ghosted me, then texted me again 2.5 months later -for a bootycall?

Submitted August 14, 2019 at 11:39PM

So, long story short, I (F/32) was seeing a guy (M/34) for 3 months, I fell for him, but I also knew he was no good for me, and I knew there was no long term future with him, but I was attracted to him and even though he had MAJOR red flags I still texted and spent time with him, knowing that this would eventually end. After what I thought was a great weekend he ghosted me. I was upset, because though I knew the relationship would go nowhere, I wasn't ready to say bye yet, I hoped we would still have more fun. I cried for him, i texted him and he never responded. After about a month of sending one text a week, I finally gave up. I tried moving on, I started seeing another guy, slept with this other guy, but i couldn't stop thinking about my ex but I still hoped he would one day text me, not to start a relationship, but maybe for more fun. Fast forward 2 and half months after i last saw him, he texted me out of the blue, on a Monday, in the afternoon (cuz i've read the time that an ex texts you matters), i was shocked, insulted, and happy he texted. I thought about ignoring him, but i realized, this is what i had wanted for the past 2.5 months, so i replied, he acted like nothing happened, so did I, he asked me if i went to some local event that weekend, i said no, i asked if he did, he said no. Then he said "just talking to you and my D is hard", i tried not to show too much excitement, so i said "oh really?" he said yes, then he says "you must be getting lots lately" i said "why do you think that?" he said "cuz you're hot AF". The truth is, i had been getting some, but i didn't want to tell him that yet, incase, he got jealous or hurt that I had and I would push him away, I still planned on telling him (because everyone deserves to know if their sexual partner is with other partners), i tried changing the subject, and "said thanks, what are you doing today?" I realize how that question, specially after what we were just talking about, could be interpreted as basically, asking him to come over, but honestly, i was just trying to avoid answering his previous question and wanted to change the subject. He said he was exhausted, so i realized what he thought i meant when i asked him what he was doing, i asked him "why is that?". Then he didn't reply again until MUCH later at 2am. I never answered him because, i thought, what's the point? that convo was going nowhere, i hoped he would text again, but he didn't, it's now been a week since he texted, and i finally gave in, last night and texted him saying "hey, howsit going?", he saw the message (cuz this all went down on FB Messenger), but he never responded. So now, i'm thinking i lost my chance of a bootycall with him, and yes i still have feelings but trust me when i say, there is NO future with this guy , i don't want to marry him, i don't want his kids, i dont want to meet his family and I don't want him to meet mine, i just want him inside of me because he was great in bed, and i enjoyed spending time with him.I'm confused as to why he randomly texted me, why he said that things he said, if he didnt want anything to do with me. Also, another side info, is that throughout this past week, i followed him on IG and he requested to follow me back and i approved. Just throwing that bit out there.So i'm considering texting him next week (this week im on my period) and saying "So...I'm just gonna be honest, i miss your D in my mouth and inside of me."TL;DR: Should I texted an ex - that ghosted me, then texted me again 2.5 months later -for a bootycall?