Beakthrough moment. Now will never ignore my bf’s calls ever again.

My (24f) boyfriend (27m) and i have been together for awhile now. Whenever we fight or if im upset with him if he calls me i will ignore his calls. I ONLY do this because i have learned the hard way that when im upset with someone i usually end up saying something very hurtful and stupid that i dont mean. So ill ignore his calls in the moment because i know ill say something stupid relating to breaking up so i always just call him back later when im clear headed.

We got into a “medium” sized fight last night. Nothing too mjaor but enough to really piss me off. He calls me and i ignore his calls because i was too upset. I calm down a bit later and call him back. No answer. Called him back again and same thing no answer. It literally crushed me knowing im sitting her trying to contact him and work things out and he just wants to ignore my calls and talk to me when hes ready or when its convinent for him.

Lol yup breakthrough moment right there. To think my boyfriend might have been feeling the same way i felt when i dont answer his calls is awful. My bf is a very patient and tolerant man but it was until that moment that i realized i was probably taking advantage. He calls me back shortly after and appologizes for not picking up cause he was in the shower. I appologized to him for ignoring his calls all this time during our fights. I could tell it caught him off gaurd but i told him i loved him and from now on i would never purposly ignore his calls.

TL;DR I would purposly ignore my bfs calls whenever we argued. He did it to me (not purposly) and it was the worst feeling in the world. Ive learned my lesson.

Submitted July 03, 2019 at 11:59PM

My (24f) boyfriend (27m) and i have been together for awhile now. Whenever we fight or if im upset with him if he calls me i will ignore his calls. I ONLY do this because i have learned the hard way that when im upset with someone i usually end up saying something very hurtful and stupid that i dont mean. So ill ignore his calls in the moment because i know ill say something stupid relating to breaking up so i always just call him back later when im clear headed.We got into a “medium” sized fight last night. Nothing too mjaor but enough to really piss me off. He calls me and i ignore his calls because i was too upset. I calm down a bit later and call him back. No answer. Called him back again and same thing no answer. It literally crushed me knowing im sitting her trying to contact him and work things out and he just wants to ignore my calls and talk to me when hes ready or when its convinent for him.Lol yup breakthrough moment right there. To think my boyfriend might have been feeling the same way i felt when i dont answer his calls is awful. My bf is a very patient and tolerant man but it was until that moment that i realized i was probably taking advantage. He calls me back shortly after and appologizes for not picking up cause he was in the shower. I appologized to him for ignoring his calls all this time during our fights. I could tell it caught him off gaurd but i told him i loved him and from now on i would never purposly ignore his calls.TL;DR I would purposly ignore my bfs calls whenever we argued. He did it to me (not purposly) and it was the worst feeling in the world. Ive learned my lesson.