My friend (19 F) is telling me (19 M) to move on

So this is a very complicated story. I've known this girl since the beginning of high school, and we became close friends. We would always spend time with each other by going to museums, watching movies, and going to Disneyland together. Over time I began to have feelings for her, and I confessed to her over a text. She never responded, and we didn't talk for a while. Over a few months, she would hit me back up and said that she missed me and wanted to rekindle our friendship. We did, and we got closer than ever before. Last summer, we would hang out all the time, and those feelings for her came back. We go to different universities, and we would try to communicate, and we would make sure to see each other whenever we had the opportunity. She would call me things like "baby boy" and always tell me she would miss me. We would go to an amusement park, and she would put her arm around mine and lay her head on my shoulder. Then one day, she messaged me suggesting that I should take her on a date. I was genuinely shocked about this as she always told me she never had feelings for me. Turns out the date didn't go well and she was acting very weird. I wanted to make it up and take her on another one but she just flat out ignored me. We went to drink coffee one night and she tells me, "My parents are telling me I should give you a chance." Then in the past couple of months, she started to ignore me more and not put too much effort into checking on me. I got very upset, and decided to stop hitting her up. Now it's summer, and her quarter at her university was coming to an end. She begins to send me memories of us two together and saying how much she misses me. I see her for the first time in months and I begin to communicate my issues. Turns out she's telling me to move on again, but she's also saying she did like me a couple of months back. It's honestly very confusing and it hurts. I appreciate any advice

tl;dr The girl that I've liked for years tells me she liked me but now is telling me to move on

Submitted June 26, 2019 at 11:53PM

So this is a very complicated story. I've known this girl since the beginning of high school, and we became close friends. We would always spend time with each other by going to museums, watching movies, and going to Disneyland together. Over time I began to have feelings for her, and I confessed to her over a text. She never responded, and we didn't talk for a while. Over a few months, she would hit me back up and said that she missed me and wanted to rekindle our friendship. We did, and we got closer than ever before. Last summer, we would hang out all the time, and those feelings for her came back. We go to different universities, and we would try to communicate, and we would make sure to see each other whenever we had the opportunity. She would call me things like "baby boy" and always tell me she would miss me. We would go to an amusement park, and she would put her arm around mine and lay her head on my shoulder. Then one day, she messaged me suggesting that I should take her on a date. I was genuinely shocked about this as she always told me she never had feelings for me. Turns out the date didn't go well and she was acting very weird. I wanted to make it up and take her on another one but she just flat out ignored me. We went to drink coffee one night and she tells me, "My parents are telling me I should give you a chance." Then in the past couple of months, she started to ignore me more and not put too much effort into checking on me. I got very upset, and decided to stop hitting her up. Now it's summer, and her quarter at her university was coming to an end. She begins to send me memories of us two together and saying how much she misses me. I see her for the first time in months and I begin to communicate my issues. Turns out she's telling me to move on again, but she's also saying she did like me a couple of months back. It's honestly very confusing and it hurts. I appreciate any advicetl;dr The girl that I've liked for years tells me she liked me but now is telling me to move on