A girl who I loved, but shouldn't have

So this story is about me and my 2 breakup's with my now Ex-Girlfriend.

The date is 11th of April 2019, I've just gotten in an argument with my girlfriend, this was the last straw for my long lasting patience.

I'd had to put up with my Girlfriends rubbish for 3 months before we ended up finish with each other, It all started when she started to talk to her ex-boyfriend about me and her and our "issues" and asked for solutions. I found out that this was happening after forgetting to call her because I had family round, I messaged her saying "Hey baby, I'm back sorry for taking so long", she tried to make go back to talk to my family. I knew something was up... I asked a friend of hers, she said that she had been talking to her ex for about 1 week now, and when I logged in on her account ( she gave me her details by the way, and I gave her mine) I saw all the messages, she was enjoying talking to him more than me, she was pushing me away just to talk to him intentional. I was hurt, furious and sad.

I decided to call her, and told her, she didn't really get what I was trying to prove (acting dumb intentionally)... I had 2 hour phone call with her (I was trying not to breakdown). She came up with the dumbest idea of only speaking to him every 4 weeks for 1 day. I still don't get it to this day with I said "Yes" to her idea... And also she never respected the whole thing and ended up having to block him since It was making em ill mentally and stressed.

Secondly, around 1 month later my girlfriend, my friends and I we're at a local "Soiree Crepes" (Pancakes/crepes evening). I'm going to cut this one short but anyway. I wanted to be a gentleman that evening, I wanted to wait an eat with my girlfriend, she threw the same excuse at me " Can we wait for my friend" (He was a lad who she asked out before but he said no). She kept me waiting till about 22:00 / 10 PM until her friend arrived, but when he did, he said hello, then went straight in, ate, then sat with his family, I told my girlfriend around 5 times that one evening if we could go eat, I each instance she said I'm not TO HUNGRY, I who was getting impatient since I had to also run about 2 Km to get to my house and back to drop off so crepes for my family about 3 times, ended up getting stomach pains and when I had enough and came back after my final run she had decided to get hers and not get mine when I asked her previously... I was forced to come home by mother and I was shouted at for not eating and my family tried to get it through my head to she was extremely selfish that evening. We had a fairly big argument that evening. And she considered breaking up with me since apparently she made makes me suffer to much... ( Kind of pathetic in a funny way )

Not long after my girlfriend fucked up in some way and I broke up with her ( I can't remember why ). Feeling guilty since I hate being rude and to shout at people, I ended up running into her friend and her and she broke down, I gave her a hug , and she cried in my arms, we later spoke a lot and got back together.... (I'm genuinely stupid...)

​

Now lets roll the 25th of June 2019.

I just got of the bus, I get a message of Gf, she just got her papers ready because she was going to her something done ( I don't want to say).

Her mum said to her, that during the school break, theirs a chance I might cheat on her and get a sort of STD???

I could see that her mum no longer trusted me, I come back, furious, she wanted to speak to me and my Gf and in person about all of that ( SexEd Is a thing ). I didn't get why she was in some sort of way calling me a dirty sex-monster.

I brought myself to my senses, I ended up consulting my parents (Since I am only a teenager).

They were both FURIOUS!!! They had had enough of her shit, they told me that I can no longer see her ever again ect....

I sent a message to her mother directly from the behalf of my parents, she said "Well thats a shame, should we wait until after the exams to see, I dont wont to upset ******"

She wanted to speak to my parents directly, I sent them out landline number, which she never called.

When my now ExGf was informed she went straight to her instagram story XD So sad to be honest....

Blocked me for some odd reason.

And now she doesn't want to talk to me which I'm completly happy about haha.

Anyway thank you for reading.

Feel free to call me an idiot for going out with a girl like her.

And NO I will not disclose any info about her or me to keep her Anonymous.

Thank you!



Submitted June 26, 2019 at 11:46PM

So this story is about me and my 2 breakup's with my now Ex-Girlfriend.The date is 11th of April 2019, I've just gotten in an argument with my girlfriend, this was the last straw for my long lasting patience.I'd had to put up with my Girlfriends rubbish for 3 months before we ended up finish with each other, It all started when she started to talk to her ex-boyfriend about me and her and our "issues" and asked for solutions. I found out that this was happening after forgetting to call her because I had family round, I messaged her saying "Hey baby, I'm back sorry for taking so long", she tried to make go back to talk to my family. I knew something was up... I asked a friend of hers, she said that she had been talking to her ex for about 1 week now, and when I logged in on her account ( she gave me her details by the way, and I gave her mine) I saw all the messages, she was enjoying talking to him more than me, she was pushing me away just to talk to him intentional. I was hurt, furious and sad.I decided to call her, and told her, she didn't really get what I was trying to prove (acting dumb intentionally)... I had 2 hour phone call with her (I was trying not to breakdown). She came up with the dumbest idea of only speaking to him every 4 weeks for 1 day. I still don't get it to this day with I said "Yes" to her idea... And also she never respected the whole thing and ended up having to block him since It was making em ill mentally and stressed.Secondly, around 1 month later my girlfriend, my friends and I we're at a local "Soiree Crepes" (Pancakes/crepes evening). I'm going to cut this one short but anyway. I wanted to be a gentleman that evening, I wanted to wait an eat with my girlfriend, she threw the same excuse at me " Can we wait for my friend" (He was a lad who she asked out before but he said no). She kept me waiting till about 22:00 / 10 PM until her friend arrived, but when he did, he said hello, then went straight in, ate, then sat with his family, I told my girlfriend around 5 times that one evening if we could go eat, I each instance she said I'm not TO HUNGRY, I who was getting impatient since I had to also run about 2 Km to get to my house and back to drop off so crepes for my family about 3 times, ended up getting stomach pains and when I had enough and came back after my final run she had decided to get hers and not get mine when I asked her previously... I was forced to come home by mother and I was shouted at for not eating and my family tried to get it through my head to she was extremely selfish that evening. We had a fairly big argument that evening. And she considered breaking up with me since apparently she made makes me suffer to much... ( Kind of pathetic in a funny way )Not long after my girlfriend fucked up in some way and I broke up with her ( I can't remember why ). Feeling guilty since I hate being rude and to shout at people, I ended up running into her friend and her and she broke down, I gave her a hug , and she cried in my arms, we later spoke a lot and got back together.... (I'm genuinely stupid...)​Now lets roll the 25th of June 2019.I just got of the bus, I get a message of Gf, she just got her papers ready because she was going to her something done ( I don't want to say).Her mum said to her, that during the school break, theirs a chance I might cheat on her and get a sort of STD???I could see that her mum no longer trusted me, I come back, furious, she wanted to speak to me and my Gf and in person about all of that ( SexEd Is a thing ). I didn't get why she was in some sort of way calling me a dirty sex-monster.I brought myself to my senses, I ended up consulting my parents (Since I am only a teenager).They were both FURIOUS!!! They had had enough of her shit, they told me that I can no longer see her ever again ect....I sent a message to her mother directly from the behalf of my parents, she said "Well thats a shame, should we wait until after the exams to see, I dont wont to upset ******"She wanted to speak to my parents directly, I sent them out landline number, which she never called.When my now ExGf was informed she went straight to her instagram story XD So sad to be honest....Blocked me for some odd reason.And now she doesn't want to talk to me which I'm completly happy about haha.Anyway thank you for reading.Feel free to call me an idiot for going out with a girl like her.And NO I will not disclose any info about her or me to keep her Anonymous.Thank you!
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