right person, wrong time? or am i dumb for believing so…

right person (i believe so) cause i understand him and he understands me, our conversations just flow, a few awkward pauses here and there (that last a long time), but we still feel comfortable during the silence. we laugh at each other and smile when around one another, he helps me out when i need it, asks if i’m okay, we both share strong eye contact and never look away. and i catch the guy staring at me all the time, all the attention he’s giving me makes me crush on him more.

wrong time because we both work together, work is not the place for relationships. plus power balance is off (he=manager). i just hate it, cause i lose him due to work, why does it have to be that way? what if we are great for one another and we can’t have anything happen due to our job?

i like him, and based off body language/other signs, he also likes me back. heck, he even said he liked me (little confused cause he might have only said it to say he likes my company). but we can’t be together b/c of work. and i think about him constantly, can’t get him out of my head no matter what i have going on. and i love listening to music, makes me feel good especially love songs since such songs remind me of him.

but i don’t know, i just clicked with him the first time we met. at least that’s how i feel. didn’t think much of him, only as a friend at work, but for some reason something sparked a likeness of mine toward him.

i just don’t know why i feel this way, i don’t want the crush to go away cause it feels nice to like someone, but i also just don’t know how to get over it in a sense? guess it’s all in my head, but why do i feel like there’s something between us? guess i’m just crazy :(

(btw if anyone’s concerned about age difference, i believe we’re pretty close, i’m 20f, he looks to be about 23 or 24m)

Submitted November 12, 2021 at 12:03AM

right person (i believe so) cause i understand him and he understands me, our conversations just flow, a few awkward pauses here and there (that last a long time), but we still feel comfortable during the silence. we laugh at each other and smile when around one another, he helps me out when i need it, asks if i’m okay, we both share strong eye contact and never look away. and i catch the guy staring at me all the time, all the attention he’s giving me makes me crush on him more.wrong time because we both work together, work is not the place for relationships. plus power balance is off (he=manager). i just hate it, cause i lose him due to work, why does it have to be that way? what if we are great for one another and we can’t have anything happen due to our job?i like him, and based off body language/other signs, he also likes me back. heck, he even said he liked me (little confused cause he might have only said it to say he likes my company). but we can’t be together b/c of work. and i think about him constantly, can’t get him out of my head no matter what i have going on. and i love listening to music, makes me feel good especially love songs since such songs remind me of him.but i don’t know, i just clicked with him the first time we met. at least that’s how i feel. didn’t think much of him, only as a friend at work, but for some reason something sparked a likeness of mine toward him.i just don’t know why i feel this way, i don’t want the crush to go away cause it feels nice to like someone, but i also just don’t know how to get over it in a sense? guess it’s all in my head, but why do i feel like there’s something between us? guess i’m just crazy :((btw if anyone’s concerned about age difference, i believe we’re pretty close, i’m 20f, he looks to be about 23 or 24m)