Sexually unfulfilled after being single for the first time in a while?

I’m 25M and have primarily been in LTRs for the past 6-7 years.

Honestly, I’m really self conscious about my kinks. Primarily, I have an anal link that I really do not like to share with people. Now that I’m single and in a city, how would I possibly go about finding someone with that shared interest?

How do I build up the courage to be more honest and open with myself and others that I’m hooking up with?

Because I keep it to myself, I feel as though I have developed a porn dependency which leaves me feeling very unfulfilled. Any help is appreciated!

Submitted September 27, 2021 at 12:38AM

I’m 25M and have primarily been in LTRs for the past 6-7 years.Honestly, I’m really self conscious about my kinks. Primarily, I have an anal link that I really do not like to share with people. Now that I’m single and in a city, how would I possibly go about finding someone with that shared interest?How do I build up the courage to be more honest and open with myself and others that I’m hooking up with?Because I keep it to myself, I feel as though I have developed a porn dependency which leaves me feeling very unfulfilled. Any help is appreciated!