Walls of text from someone you're dating - how do you feel about it?

Meaning long text messages with several paragraphs where you'll have to scroll to read all of it. Do you like more information rather than less? Or do you think it's coming on too strong from someone you're only casually/in the initial throes of dating (even if you've already slept with them), or think oh man, do they expect me to respond to all this.

This is from someone you're not overly chatty or texting every day or having phone calls with yet, but know them enough/you've already slept together where you'll want to hear from them to get an update every few days before you schedule your next meeting, but I'm wondering if a "wall" is too much. I'll sometimes try to just text newer partners at the same rate they text me, but if we're not talking every day, sometimes I just have more to say.



Submitted August 22, 2020 at 06:33PM

Meaning long text messages with several paragraphs where you'll have to scroll to read all of it. Do you like more information rather than less? Or do you think it's coming on too strong from someone you're only casually/in the initial throes of dating (even if you've already slept with them), or think oh man, do they expect me to respond to all this.This is from someone you're not overly chatty or texting every day or having phone calls with yet, but know them enough/you've already slept together where you'll want to hear from them to get an update every few days before you schedule your next meeting, but I'm wondering if a "wall" is too much. I'll sometimes try to just text newer partners at the same rate they text me, but if we're not talking every day, sometimes I just have more to say.

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