My mom (59F), has been acting weird since my sister (23F) is away for exchange

Would really need some advice.

Some background story. My bf and I have been together for 8 years. Recently, he’s coming over to my house to stay during the weekends because my sis is away for exchange and I don’t feel safe with being alone with my mum. My dad works as a security guard so he works on a shift basis.

There’s a history of my mom holding a chopper while we were sleeping about 2 years ago. My sister was with me. Since then, I’ve been having this image in my mind every time I sleep.

She also discourages us having our own room. My bf tried so hard to paint the room, installed all my furniture for my sis and I so that we had our own rooms. Since then, things escalated. She claimed she couldn’t sleep at night. Things got better but my sis dropped a bomb to say she’s gg exchange (Aug 19-Jan20). Since Aug, she has been walking to my room while I was asleep. I heard footsteps so I woke up. And saw a shadow. I’ve looked at the timings, it can be 1am, 2am or even 5am!

My bf stayed with me during the weekends and told me that he has seen my mom “patrolling” around my room. But the thing is, we’re really sleeping! We’re so worn out from work! My bf snores too so we decided to close the door so it doesn’t disturb my parents (my mom refuses to move into her bedroom, so she and my dad sleeps in living room). Just yesterday, my bf saw that my mom opened the room door at 1,2 and 3 am!

It’s freaking me out, what do I do?

Tl:dr; mom is acting weird, needs advice!



Submitted October 25, 2019 at 11:45PM

Would really need some advice.Some background story. My bf and I have been together for 8 years. Recently, he’s coming over to my house to stay during the weekends because my sis is away for exchange and I don’t feel safe with being alone with my mum. My dad works as a security guard so he works on a shift basis.There’s a history of my mom holding a chopper while we were sleeping about 2 years ago. My sister was with me. Since then, I’ve been having this image in my mind every time I sleep.She also discourages us having our own room. My bf tried so hard to paint the room, installed all my furniture for my sis and I so that we had our own rooms. Since then, things escalated. She claimed she couldn’t sleep at night. Things got better but my sis dropped a bomb to say she’s gg exchange (Aug 19-Jan20). Since Aug, she has been walking to my room while I was asleep. I heard footsteps so I woke up. And saw a shadow. I’ve looked at the timings, it can be 1am, 2am or even 5am!My bf stayed with me during the weekends and told me that he has seen my mom “patrolling” around my room. But the thing is, we’re really sleeping! We’re so worn out from work! My bf snores too so we decided to close the door so it doesn’t disturb my parents (my mom refuses to move into her bedroom, so she and my dad sleeps in living room). Just yesterday, my bf saw that my mom opened the room door at 1,2 and 3 am!It’s freaking me out, what do I do?Tl:dr; mom is acting weird, needs advice!
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