My [17F] best friend’s [18F,19F] slept with my brother [20M] during a sleepover, I don’t know if I should cut them off or what.

I am pretty conflicted right now. I have known both of my best friend’s since 7th grade and we all just graduated together. I’m so pissed and hurt about what happened and I never thought that they would backstab me like this. So, we usually have sleepovers at my place since I am the only one with a pool, and we hang out like this almost every weekend (fridays and saturdays).

I knew that they found my brother attractive (everyone does) because they had told me before, but I did not expect them to mess around and actually pursue him. We usually all sleep in my room on the floor during the sleepovers , and my brother does talk with us or hang our with us sometimes but I kick hik out because I know he is just trying to get at my friends.

This barely happened. I had woken up at night to use the restroom, and I noticed that not only one, but BOTH pf my friends were not sleeping and I kind of looked around the house for them. I checked my brother’s room and they were in there having sex with him. I don’t think I need to say much more, but I got pissed and we all got into a big argument.

My friends have tried apologizing and talking with me, but I am having a hard time looking at them because of what they did. I’m also really conflicted because I have known them for years and we are all soo close. What should I do? Should I give them some time before I even try to cut them off or something?

TL;DR My 2 best friends snuck around during a sleepover and had turns with my brother in bed, I’m hurt and don’t know how to move forward.



Submitted June 24, 2019 at 11:35PM

I am pretty conflicted right now. I have known both of my best friend’s since 7th grade and we all just graduated together. I’m so pissed and hurt about what happened and I never thought that they would backstab me like this. So, we usually have sleepovers at my place since I am the only one with a pool, and we hang out like this almost every weekend (fridays and saturdays).I knew that they found my brother attractive (everyone does) because they had told me before, but I did not expect them to mess around and actually pursue him. We usually all sleep in my room on the floor during the sleepovers , and my brother does talk with us or hang our with us sometimes but I kick hik out because I know he is just trying to get at my friends.This barely happened. I had woken up at night to use the restroom, and I noticed that not only one, but BOTH pf my friends were not sleeping and I kind of looked around the house for them. I checked my brother’s room and they were in there having sex with him. I don’t think I need to say much more, but I got pissed and we all got into a big argument.My friends have tried apologizing and talking with me, but I am having a hard time looking at them because of what they did. I’m also really conflicted because I have known them for years and we are all soo close. What should I do? Should I give them some time before I even try to cut them off or something?TL;DR My 2 best friends snuck around during a sleepover and had turns with my brother in bed, I’m hurt and don’t know how to move forward.
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