How can I/Should I tell the guy I'm talking to that his moaning turns me off?

I (23f) and a guy who lives down the road (21m) met walking our dogs and hit it off. I really enjoy spending time with him and he is such a sweet human. We are both on the same page as we don't plan to live in the same place very long (I want to live in another country and he is in the army and travels a good amount). So we are sort of friends with benefits.

I find him extremely attractive and like is personality. The issue is that he moans like a girl during sex. He doesn't have much experience (only one other girl when he was 17). I usually don't have an issue explaining what I like, however I would never want to hurt his feelings or make him self conscious. However his moaning really does turn me off completely.

Would I be a dick if I told him this, and should avoid the convo all together? Or if not, how should I go about starting that convo?

Any advise is very appreciated!

Submitted September 19, 2021 at 12:46AM

I (23f) and a guy who lives down the road (21m) met walking our dogs and hit it off. I really enjoy spending time with him and he is such a sweet human. We are both on the same page as we don't plan to live in the same place very long (I want to live in another country and he is in the army and travels a good amount). So we are sort of friends with benefits.I find him extremely attractive and like is personality. The issue is that he moans like a girl during sex. He doesn't have much experience (only one other girl when he was 17). I usually don't have an issue explaining what I like, however I would never want to hurt his feelings or make him self conscious. However his moaning really does turn me off completely.Would I be a dick if I told him this, and should avoid the convo all together? Or if not, how should I go about starting that convo?Any advise is very appreciated!