Boyfriend (36m) keeps reminding me that girls throw themselves at him.

I 29f have been dating my bf 36m for 1 year. I broke up with him several times for alcoholism. The usual hiding bottles and drinking 4 to 6 days a week. He cut down a lot but it won't last. I left him but we still talk and see each other often. We haven't moved on. When I break up, he calls non stop, calls my sister, texts and calls 10 times in a row, shows up at my house.

Anyways, he begs me to come back and I do. But this is the 3rd time this week he says "I can get anyone. Look at me. They throw themselves at me. I just happened to be in love with you and I only want you." I never say anything about guys. They try messaging me but I don't tell him that because I tell the other guys I'm not single. I tell him to date those other girls and he gets all defensive and says they all want him but he doesn't want them. He is very handsome but there is more than looks. Idk how to respond to that.

Tl;DR: bf tells me all the time that girls pursue him.

Submitted September 19, 2021 at 12:10AM

I 29f have been dating my bf 36m for 1 year. I broke up with him several times for alcoholism. The usual hiding bottles and drinking 4 to 6 days a week. He cut down a lot but it won't last. I left him but we still talk and see each other often. We haven't moved on. When I break up, he calls non stop, calls my sister, texts and calls 10 times in a row, shows up at my house.Anyways, he begs me to come back and I do. But this is the 3rd time this week he says "I can get anyone. Look at me. They throw themselves at me. I just happened to be in love with you and I only want you." I never say anything about guys. They try messaging me but I don't tell him that because I tell the other guys I'm not single. I tell him to date those other girls and he gets all defensive and says they all want him but he doesn't want them. He is very handsome but there is more than looks. Idk how to respond to that.Tl;DR: bf tells me all the time that girls pursue him.