Why do guys ghost?

I’m not really sure what to do. (27f)

Here’s the scenario (and this has happened with almost every guy I’ve gone out with the last 2 years): we have an amazing first date. The vibe is great. The chemistry is there. We have a ton of fun and everything seems to flow. The date ends, and when I get home they immediately ask for a second date. We talk all the time, they say how excited they are to see me. We plan a second one but it never happens. I get ghosted. I replay everything over and over again and I still never understand what I did wrong. I try to be positive and say it’s nothing wrong with me, but when it happens every time, it gets really hard to not think that way. I just want to know why this happens. And I’m sure girls do it too. If you’re not interested after the first date, why even bother pretending that you want a second one?



Submitted November 18, 2019 at 12:12AM

I’m not really sure what to do. (27f)Here’s the scenario (and this has happened with almost every guy I’ve gone out with the last 2 years): we have an amazing first date. The vibe is great. The chemistry is there. We have a ton of fun and everything seems to flow. The date ends, and when I get home they immediately ask for a second date. We talk all the time, they say how excited they are to see me. We plan a second one but it never happens. I get ghosted. I replay everything over and over again and I still never understand what I did wrong. I try to be positive and say it’s nothing wrong with me, but when it happens every time, it gets really hard to not think that way. I just want to know why this happens. And I’m sure girls do it too. If you’re not interested after the first date, why even bother pretending that you want a second one?

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