I need advice

So I’m currently a freshman in college and I’ve been talking to this girl for around two months. I knew immediately when I met her that she was special. We hung out constantly when we first met. There was a point where we saw each other for a 30 days in a row. We both knew we were into each other and eventually we started hooking up. The past couple weeks have been concerning. I’ve noticed she has been playing hard to get recently. Some days she acts very interested in me and she is all over me. Other days she barely responds and doesn’t put in much effort. When we hangout everything feels right but she doesn’t put much effort in on days when we don’t see each other. I really like this girl but I can’t really tell if she feels the same way. I want to keep pursuing her but I’m kind of worn down by the games she is playing. I don’t want to start chasing too hard and become obsessive. Should I start trying to play hard to get or...??

Submitted November 18, 2019 at 12:11AM

So I’m currently a freshman in college and I’ve been talking to this girl for around two months. I knew immediately when I met her that she was special. We hung out constantly when we first met. There was a point where we saw each other for a 30 days in a row. We both knew we were into each other and eventually we started hooking up. The past couple weeks have been concerning. I’ve noticed she has been playing hard to get recently. Some days she acts very interested in me and she is all over me. Other days she barely responds and doesn’t put in much effort. When we hangout everything feels right but she doesn’t put much effort in on days when we don’t see each other. I really like this girl but I can’t really tell if she feels the same way. I want to keep pursuing her but I’m kind of worn down by the games she is playing. I don’t want to start chasing too hard and become obsessive. Should I start trying to play hard to get or...??