Need some advice!

I met this girl at work about a week ago (I work In a corporate environment). The moment we met we really hit it off since we had a lot in common. I got her number and after a few days I asked her out and we went on a dinner date. It was great! We talked for like 6 hours straight about everything and we both really opened up to one another. I really saw something special in her. We’ve been texting back and forth with her mostly doing the initiating.

Now, today I decided I would ask her out again this weekend and I had some plans in play (decided on some stuff we would both like). We were talking at lunch and when I brought up “btw what are you doing Friday - I wanted to take you to so and so...”. She said she couldn’t do it because she had some family stuff which she explained clearly and it made sense because she had mentioned it before. I made a little small talk about the family thing. She didn’t mention an alternative date so then I asked “what about the next day?”. Which she replied by giving some clear thought to it and said at night she would be free but then I realized it wouldn’t really work for me (don’t even know why I asked about the next day - was kinda just thinking in the moment). Anyways we didn’t talk about any other date after that and just made some small talk as I walked her back. Told her I would see her next week (since I’m off for a couple days) and we hugged and I left on what felt like a positive note.

I think she’s amazing and I seem to like so much about her - we make each other laugh, we like so many things in common and I get this warm feeling around her. I’m at a point in my life where I’m very serious about my future and am very determined on achieving my goals and she seemed to be the Bonnie I could take on the world with. I’ve decided that I’ll still keep up with her through text and all but the ball is in her court if she wants to go on another date. Should I leave it there or should I be persistent and ask again in the next week or two. I’m really not for games anymore and am very motivated on where I want to get in life.

btw I would say we are both really attractive and I’d think we’d make a great couple!

Also I’m 27 and she’s a couple years younger.

Thoughts anyone?

Submitted November 27, 2019 at 11:41PM

I met this girl at work about a week ago (I work In a corporate environment). The moment we met we really hit it off since we had a lot in common. I got her number and after a few days I asked her out and we went on a dinner date. It was great! We talked for like 6 hours straight about everything and we both really opened up to one another. I really saw something special in her. We’ve been texting back and forth with her mostly doing the initiating.Now, today I decided I would ask her out again this weekend and I had some plans in play (decided on some stuff we would both like). We were talking at lunch and when I brought up “btw what are you doing Friday - I wanted to take you to so and so...”. She said she couldn’t do it because she had some family stuff which she explained clearly and it made sense because she had mentioned it before. I made a little small talk about the family thing. She didn’t mention an alternative date so then I asked “what about the next day?”. Which she replied by giving some clear thought to it and said at night she would be free but then I realized it wouldn’t really work for me (don’t even know why I asked about the next day - was kinda just thinking in the moment). Anyways we didn’t talk about any other date after that and just made some small talk as I walked her back. Told her I would see her next week (since I’m off for a couple days) and we hugged and I left on what felt like a positive note.I think she’s amazing and I seem to like so much about her - we make each other laugh, we like so many things in common and I get this warm feeling around her. I’m at a point in my life where I’m very serious about my future and am very determined on achieving my goals and she seemed to be the Bonnie I could take on the world with. I’ve decided that I’ll still keep up with her through text and all but the ball is in her court if she wants to go on another date. Should I leave it there or should I be persistent and ask again in the next week or two. I’m really not for games anymore and am very motivated on where I want to get in life.btw I would say we are both really attractive and I’d think we’d make a great couple!Also I’m 27 and she’s a couple years younger.Thoughts anyone?