Is she(26F) interested? I (27M) seem to be making all the initiations.

Sooo I (27/M) met this woman (26/F) off of Hinge (I liked her picture, she made the initial conversation) after conversing. I suggested we meet up.

For our first date, we had dinner at a pizza place, which went pretty well. We talked nonstop for two hours. Funny thing is while I did have a good time, I completely forgot to mention her that I would like to see her again and didn't reach out until 4 days later. Though did I text her right after our date that I had a great time and hope she got home safe. Please cut me some slack as I haven't dated in forever, or if ever. I was under the impression she would reach out to me first LOL. But luckily, she did respond and said she would be down for a second date.

The second date went well I thought. We went to mini-golfing/arcade. We were so busy talking that we almost forgot at some point we were mini golfing. Lots of joking and sarcasm. However, I didn't do anything "intimate" such as holding hands. I gave her a side hug after beating me in one of our games 😂. I also got to know her a little better compared to the first date. This date was 5 hours vs 2 hours from the first date. Before departing I told her I had a great time and we should hang out again. She said she is interested. I ended the date by giving her a hug and a kiss on the cheek but she didn't seem receptive of it? Afterwards, she got right out of the car and said bye.

So we confirmed for a third date so I think she is still be interested. But is it normal for me to make all the initiations. She has not really texted either but will respond if I text. Maybe I'm just over thinking.



Submitted August 26, 2019 at 11:50PM

Sooo I (27/M) met this woman (26/F) off of Hinge (I liked her picture, she made the initial conversation) after conversing. I suggested we meet up.For our first date, we had dinner at a pizza place, which went pretty well. We talked nonstop for two hours. Funny thing is while I did have a good time, I completely forgot to mention her that I would like to see her again and didn't reach out until 4 days later. Though did I text her right after our date that I had a great time and hope she got home safe. Please cut me some slack as I haven't dated in forever, or if ever. I was under the impression she would reach out to me first LOL. But luckily, she did respond and said she would be down for a second date.The second date went well I thought. We went to mini-golfing/arcade. We were so busy talking that we almost forgot at some point we were mini golfing. Lots of joking and sarcasm. However, I didn't do anything "intimate" such as holding hands. I gave her a side hug after beating me in one of our games 😂. I also got to know her a little better compared to the first date. This date was 5 hours vs 2 hours from the first date. Before departing I told her I had a great time and we should hang out again. She said she is interested. I ended the date by giving her a hug and a kiss on the cheek but she didn't seem receptive of it? Afterwards, she got right out of the car and said bye.So we confirmed for a third date so I think she is still be interested. But is it normal for me to make all the initiations. She has not really texted either but will respond if I text. Maybe I'm just over thinking.
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