Confused about this situation with this girl. What would you think in my place? Here goes....

She works at a grocery store I go to every week. It started off with me asking for her number, she gives it and we send a few texts to each other then suddenly she ghosts me. Next time I see her in person I politely wave and to my surprise she starts a conversation. She apologizes and tells me she's been really busy and promises to text me later. We exchange a couple texts and then she ghosts me again. This time I send her a message saying that I understand if approaching her made her feel uncomfortable and obligated to give her number to me. That I will not take it personally if she's not interested. She actually responds to say that I have it all wrong and that she was truly just busy. She works and goes to college. I sent her 3 long texts trying to ask her out and she never responds for a week. Then I see her in the store and to my surprise she talks casually and actually invites me to come back to the store to see her when its less busy at 1 am. I had bought some beers so I tell her I might not be able to make it if I'm drunk in a joking way. She says defintely don't come if you're going to drink those and then she tells me her schedule for the next day. Then we chit chat for a bit and as I'm leaving tells me that she'll see me later tonight. I say cool and that I'll see her then

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So I'm wondering like wtf? She won't ever text me back but seems to want to talk to me when its in person.

Submitted August 23, 2019 at 11:40PM

She works at a grocery store I go to every week. It started off with me asking for her number, she gives it and we send a few texts to each other then suddenly she ghosts me. Next time I see her in person I politely wave and to my surprise she starts a conversation. She apologizes and tells me she's been really busy and promises to text me later. We exchange a couple texts and then she ghosts me again. This time I send her a message saying that I understand if approaching her made her feel uncomfortable and obligated to give her number to me. That I will not take it personally if she's not interested. She actually responds to say that I have it all wrong and that she was truly just busy. She works and goes to college. I sent her 3 long texts trying to ask her out and she never responds for a week. Then I see her in the store and to my surprise she talks casually and actually invites me to come back to the store to see her when its less busy at 1 am. I had bought some beers so I tell her I might not be able to make it if I'm drunk in a joking way. She says defintely don't come if you're going to drink those and then she tells me her schedule for the next day. Then we chit chat for a bit and as I'm leaving tells me that she'll see me later tonight. I say cool and that I'll see her then​So I'm wondering like wtf? She won't ever text me back but seems to want to talk to me when its in person.