A girl I like likes me.

First of all I want to say that I don’t know if this is the place to ask these questions, especially since I’m quite young (I’m a 16 year old male) compared to the rest of you. Anyway, here we go.

There is a girl (16 year old as well) from class that I’ve had a crush on for about 1-2 years, we have been friends for around 3 years. I’ve always thought she didn’t like me more than a friend since I’ve never got any hints from her. I’ve never stopped like her even though I’ve told my self I’ve got to stop thinking about her an instead focus on other stuff since she doesn’t like me the same way anyway. Today was my lucky day I guess. One of her closest friends told me this: “You know, you should meet L*** because you have been her crush for almost 2 years.” First thing I didn’t believe her friend a bit since dreams never come true, but after talking to her she told me that it’s true. Her friend is not the type to lie, especially not to damage anyone.

So basically I now know that my crush has a crush on me. I have no idea what to do to progress from here. I really want to be with her and I’ve never been in a serious relationship with a girl and I’m so afraid to accidentally f*ck this up. The hard thing is that we don’t randomly talk to each other that often and I don’t want to seem weird by asking her from out of nowhere to meet up, go to the beach, hang out or whatever. What should I do? Should I ask her friend to help me out? What should I do? TL;DR I found out my crush has a crush on me, what do I do?

Submitted July 06, 2019 at 12:22AM

First of all I want to say that I don’t know if this is the place to ask these questions, especially since I’m quite young (I’m a 16 year old male) compared to the rest of you. Anyway, here we go.There is a girl (16 year old as well) from class that I’ve had a crush on for about 1-2 years, we have been friends for around 3 years. I’ve always thought she didn’t like me more than a friend since I’ve never got any hints from her. I’ve never stopped like her even though I’ve told my self I’ve got to stop thinking about her an instead focus on other stuff since she doesn’t like me the same way anyway. Today was my lucky day I guess. One of her closest friends told me this: “You know, you should meet L*** because you have been her crush for almost 2 years.” First thing I didn’t believe her friend a bit since dreams never come true, but after talking to her she told me that it’s true. Her friend is not the type to lie, especially not to damage anyone.So basically I now know that my crush has a crush on me. I have no idea what to do to progress from here. I really want to be with her and I’ve never been in a serious relationship with a girl and I’m so afraid to accidentally f*ck this up. The hard thing is that we don’t randomly talk to each other that often and I don’t want to seem weird by asking her from out of nowhere to meet up, go to the beach, hang out or whatever. What should I do? Should I ask her friend to help me out? What should I do? TL;DR I found out my crush has a crush on me, what do I do?