Breaking the Ice ... Even further

Hi there. I'm 18y/o, living in my own flat in a block of three. I have two female neighbours who are fit as fuck, and their both single. For their discretion I'll call them Jess (18), and Emily (20). I have growing feelings towards Emily, but in really not sure how I drop hints to her.

I think she's been dropping hints to me(?) she keeps messaging me on Snapchat asking how I am, and asking me if I'm up in the mornings, and if I'm awake at night so on... When we've been hanging out Emily has been pressing her shoulder up against mine. Like we're comfortable with eachothers personal space. Emily has said in a few occasions that I'm a really nice guy, and I got a hug off Jess the other day.

They both came to my flat tonight to hangout and all they talked about were the lads they thought were fit. Jess is out to get the D, and Emily is just following her about. This did make me feel a little upset, like I had opportunities before tonight to show my interest but missed my chances. I DONT want to get in bed with either of them, just so you know. I'm after a relationship.

++A LITTLE BACKSTORY++ I moved in about 3 months ago. But only started talking to my neighbours early last week, after they broke the ice with me. We are all shy, but We've been hanging out most evenings. Watching films, talking, looking at memes, etc. We have a really strong bond. We can all joke with eachother, comfort eachother, Emily talked to me the otherr day about all the stuff that's been bothering her recently and I helped her out. ++++

Should I try and be a little more outgoing? Dropping compliments on Emily's Snapchat stories and in person? I've never really been in this situation before. What do I do?

Am I overthinking that Emily likes me? Perhaps she's just an outgoing person and we're just friends.

I'm more scared of pushing them away, because they are both my friends and neighbours. So any mistakes I make will make things really awkward. I've never been in this situation before.



Submitted June 07, 2019 at 11:42PM

Hi there. I'm 18y/o, living in my own flat in a block of three. I have two female neighbours who are fit as fuck, and their both single. For their discretion I'll call them Jess (18), and Emily (20). I have growing feelings towards Emily, but in really not sure how I drop hints to her.I think she's been dropping hints to me(?) she keeps messaging me on Snapchat asking how I am, and asking me if I'm up in the mornings, and if I'm awake at night so on... When we've been hanging out Emily has been pressing her shoulder up against mine. Like we're comfortable with eachothers personal space. Emily has said in a few occasions that I'm a really nice guy, and I got a hug off Jess the other day.They both came to my flat tonight to hangout and all they talked about were the lads they thought were fit. Jess is out to get the D, and Emily is just following her about. This did make me feel a little upset, like I had opportunities before tonight to show my interest but missed my chances. I DONT want to get in bed with either of them, just so you know. I'm after a relationship.++A LITTLE BACKSTORY++ I moved in about 3 months ago. But only started talking to my neighbours early last week, after they broke the ice with me. We are all shy, but We've been hanging out most evenings. Watching films, talking, looking at memes, etc. We have a really strong bond. We can all joke with eachother, comfort eachother, Emily talked to me the otherr day about all the stuff that's been bothering her recently and I helped her out. ++++Should I try and be a little more outgoing? Dropping compliments on Emily's Snapchat stories and in person? I've never really been in this situation before. What do I do?Am I overthinking that Emily likes me? Perhaps she's just an outgoing person and we're just friends.I'm more scared of pushing them away, because they are both my friends and neighbours. So any mistakes I make will make things really awkward. I've never been in this situation before.
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