Is he backing up, busy or waiting for my initiative?

I (f,24) recently got out of long relationships, it was engagement, 4 years.

Nearly after 3 months after breakup I accidentally matched with a guy who is an acquaintance of my ex, they studied together. Never been friends, but used to be a part of his social circle, they both would attend events with other people and such thing.

We went on several dates with the guy, it went pretty well ( getting to know each other in all ways). On the third date we slept with each other, he behaved very much romantically and like a gentleman after but then didn’t message me for 3 days. I didn’t understand whether he wasn’t interested anymore or wanted a step from me. I messaged hi, he replied right away and we continued communication. He had a trip booked to a foreign country, went there, still was chatting me from everywhere. Was very cute, romantic and kinda couple ish communication.

He came back from the trip, drove far to see me, we had a good date that also ended up with intimacy. In the morning I had work, he had too so he ordered me a very high class taxi (some fancy car), made sure I got safe home. After it the next day he messaged me in the evening saying that he was thinking about picking me up but was too tired after training. I said it’s totally cool and we didn’t have anything planned anyways. That was the end of a dialogue. Next day he still did not invite me anywhere. (Even though previously he mentioned wanting to watch movies). And weekend is the best time for me,Otherwise I have a very busy job. And I didn’t message either. Does it mean he didn’t like something during our last date (because I’d read it as such sign) or maybe he’s waiting on a move from me and trying not to be too intense?

Submitted January 10, 2022 at 02:15AM

I (f,24) recently got out of long relationships, it was engagement, 4 years.Nearly after 3 months after breakup I accidentally matched with a guy who is an acquaintance of my ex, they studied together. Never been friends, but used to be a part of his social circle, they both would attend events with other people and such thing.We went on several dates with the guy, it went pretty well ( getting to know each other in all ways). On the third date we slept with each other, he behaved very much romantically and like a gentleman after but then didn’t message me for 3 days. I didn’t understand whether he wasn’t interested anymore or wanted a step from me. I messaged hi, he replied right away and we continued communication. He had a trip booked to a foreign country, went there, still was chatting me from everywhere. Was very cute, romantic and kinda couple ish communication.He came back from the trip, drove far to see me, we had a good date that also ended up with intimacy. In the morning I had work, he had too so he ordered me a very high class taxi (some fancy car), made sure I got safe home. After it the next day he messaged me in the evening saying that he was thinking about picking me up but was too tired after training. I said it’s totally cool and we didn’t have anything planned anyways. That was the end of a dialogue. Next day he still did not invite me anywhere. (Even though previously he mentioned wanting to watch movies). And weekend is the best time for me,Otherwise I have a very busy job. And I didn’t message either. Does it mean he didn’t like something during our last date (because I’d read it as such sign) or maybe he’s waiting on a move from me and trying not to be too intense?