/u/endureandsurvive27 on I feel disgusted by my memories. Not having guidance or exposure to ace representation fucking ruined me.

I relate to this a ton. I looks back at past relationships and sexual experiences and just hate it so much. Sometimes it honestly keeps me up at night. I wish I had know about ace identities sooner and seen ppl like me in popular media so I could have figured myself out a lot sooner but unfortunately I didn’t know and got myself into a lot of situations I thought I “should” be doing at whatever age. Now I’m nearly 28 and just figuring myself out. Makes me mad at society but I also feel feelings of disgust at myself bc I feel like I still should have refrained from things I knew I deep down did not want. We must be gentle with ourselves though OP. We didn’t know what we know now. Please don’t blame yourself 💕 we can’t fix past mistakes, only learn from them unfortunately. I’m right there with you.





October 22, 2021 at 11:46PM

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