Dating is discriminatory

It is natural to go for someone you consider attractive. If overweight or being short is unattractive to said person, oh well. Dating is discriminatory in general. And it’s for the specific reason of finding the right person.

Some women don’t want a man who’s a stick.

Some women prefer the stick over the man who’s not a stick.

Some men prefer overweight women

Some men prefer normal weight women

But looks aren’t the end all be all factor. Many people can put what they prefer in a person aside if they click with the right one. But that’s why we discriminate in the first place, to find the right person.

Some atheists don’t want to date someone religious

There are religious who prefer to date someone of the same religion

Some people want kids and will date single parents

Some don’t want kids and won’t date single parents

It is normal. And unless the person is rude about what they prefer in a partner, said preferences should be respected. Their boundaries should be respected. There is no need to act like this is an inherently bad concept when it’s not.



Submitted October 09, 2021 at 12:58AM

It is natural to go for someone you consider attractive. If overweight or being short is unattractive to said person, oh well. Dating is discriminatory in general. And it’s for the specific reason of finding the right person.Some women don’t want a man who’s a stick.Some women prefer the stick over the man who’s not a stick.Some men prefer overweight womenSome men prefer normal weight womenBut looks aren’t the end all be all factor. Many people can put what they prefer in a person aside if they click with the right one. But that’s why we discriminate in the first place, to find the right person.Some atheists don’t want to date someone religiousThere are religious who prefer to date someone of the same religionSome people want kids and will date single parentsSome don’t want kids and won’t date single parentsIt is normal. And unless the person is rude about what they prefer in a partner, said preferences should be respected. Their boundaries should be respected. There is no need to act like this is an inherently bad concept when it’s not.

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