Is it weird that after 2 dates he hasn’t kissed me?

I am (28) and he’s (31) we had date one where it went really well and he felt we connected on many levels, he’s a perfect gentlemen. Walked me home and made the second date picking a time and day right there. Gives me a long hug and when he looked at me I felt that spark of “he wants to kiss me” (you know the spark) but he didn’t. He texts me immediately that night and he said “not gonna lie...I wanted to hang out with you longer” and so he proceeded to text me. He keeps communication every day until our next date and Our second date he took me to this nice restaurant and once again was super sweet, conversation flowed but he made it known he was trying to impress me and wanted to know how he could impress me more. I told him this

“Just be yourself. Ive had guys in the past who tried to be something they thought I wanted them to be and it only made me less interested bc they didn’t give me a chance to get to know who they really are. And Having lavish expensive dates won’t mean anything to me if I don’t already like the person you are. It’s not important to me. I care about getting to know you and it’s important to me that the guy is making a priority to get to know me and communicate.”

He then proceeded to ask me how he is doing so far? If he’s standing out, if he’s meeting my requirements and if I’d be interested in seeing him again ect” I didn’t know what to say so I told him well “are you asking me on a 3rd date?” And he said yes absolutely I’d really love to see you again and I said “well then my answer is yes I’d love to go out again” he told me this weekend he has a bday party and work event on Sunday but that he’d love to go out early next week and then after have a weekend date and maybe go to a museum. I told him that sounds nice I’d life that. We then finished dinner laughed talked some more. Then he walked me home and hugged me again, another longish hug. He told me his schedule this week again and reiterated how he wants to get together early next week and then do something over next weekend. I once again said yes I’d like that. Sounds great”

After he dropped me off he again immediately texted me and said “Tonight was fun 🙂” I said “It was. Thanks for tonight 😊” and he proceeded to tell me he’d be up for a bit if I wanted to keep chatting and he suggested we watch a documentary on Netflix “together” meaning separately but still texting. So we did.

This morning he sent me a link to a product I mentioned last night and he said he knew a really good one recommended by his doctor friends. And then he “liked” my reply commenting how great the product seemed.

The thing is he seems to like me but I’m used to men kissing me on the first date let alone not even on the second date. I’m very attractive and have constantly been told so but this guy seems very different then what I’m used to and I can’t gauge him. Should I be concerned he’s still not kissing me?

Submitted December 10, 2020 at 11:49PM

I am (28) and he’s (31) we had date one where it went really well and he felt we connected on many levels, he’s a perfect gentlemen. Walked me home and made the second date picking a time and day right there. Gives me a long hug and when he looked at me I felt that spark of “he wants to kiss me” (you know the spark) but he didn’t. He texts me immediately that night and he said “not gonna lie...I wanted to hang out with you longer” and so he proceeded to text me. He keeps communication every day until our next date and Our second date he took me to this nice restaurant and once again was super sweet, conversation flowed but he made it known he was trying to impress me and wanted to know how he could impress me more. I told him this“Just be yourself. Ive had guys in the past who tried to be something they thought I wanted them to be and it only made me less interested bc they didn’t give me a chance to get to know who they really are. And Having lavish expensive dates won’t mean anything to me if I don’t already like the person you are. It’s not important to me. I care about getting to know you and it’s important to me that the guy is making a priority to get to know me and communicate.”He then proceeded to ask me how he is doing so far? If he’s standing out, if he’s meeting my requirements and if I’d be interested in seeing him again ect” I didn’t know what to say so I told him well “are you asking me on a 3rd date?” And he said yes absolutely I’d really love to see you again and I said “well then my answer is yes I’d love to go out again” he told me this weekend he has a bday party and work event on Sunday but that he’d love to go out early next week and then after have a weekend date and maybe go to a museum. I told him that sounds nice I’d life that. We then finished dinner laughed talked some more. Then he walked me home and hugged me again, another longish hug. He told me his schedule this week again and reiterated how he wants to get together early next week and then do something over next weekend. I once again said yes I’d like that. Sounds great”After he dropped me off he again immediately texted me and said “Tonight was fun 🙂” I said “It was. Thanks for tonight 😊” and he proceeded to tell me he’d be up for a bit if I wanted to keep chatting and he suggested we watch a documentary on Netflix “together” meaning separately but still texting. So we did.This morning he sent me a link to a product I mentioned last night and he said he knew a really good one recommended by his doctor friends. And then he “liked” my reply commenting how great the product seemed.The thing is he seems to like me but I’m used to men kissing me on the first date let alone not even on the second date. I’m very attractive and have constantly been told so but this guy seems very different then what I’m used to and I can’t gauge him. Should I be concerned he’s still not kissing me?