Wife needs constant validation for doing stuff we need to do.
I'm convinced my wife is terrible at doing her equal part at keeping our house tidy and it pisses me off to the point I don't want to be there anymore. When I make I mess I clean it up. When I do more than my part of dishes, vacuuming, walking the dog, cleaning without the need for validation all the time. If I have busy day, I don't use it as an excuse to leave a mess. I'm tired of the lack of neatness and organization. It's just adds tasks to our lives that can otherwise be handled if tackled in a timely manner. A neat house is a big deal to me and I do my best to respect my space.
I'm tired of feeling guilty and ashamed of bringing this up to my wife. Nothing is working and I'm done with the bullshit. You don't need a pat on the back for for taking care of your own space. It's what people are supposed to do. Also we're damn adults.
Submitted September 24, 2020 at 11:55PM
I'm convinced my wife is terrible at doing her equal part at keeping our house tidy and it pisses me off to the point I don't want to be there anymore. When I make I mess I clean it up. When I do more than my part of dishes, vacuuming, walking the dog, cleaning without the need for validation all the time. If I have busy day, I don't use it as an excuse to leave a mess. I'm tired of the lack of neatness and organization. It's just adds tasks to our lives that can otherwise be handled if tackled in a timely manner. A neat house is a big deal to me and I do my best to respect my space.I'm tired of feeling guilty and ashamed of bringing this up to my wife. Nothing is working and I'm done with the bullshit. You don't need a pat on the back for for taking care of your own space. It's what people are supposed to do. Also we're damn adults.
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