/u/kib_b on asexual and non-asexual, struggling in a relationship of 6 years

So it's certainly possible and there are successful relationships between those who do and don't identify as asexual. Preemptively ending things because you think that he could feel a certain way sounds like a poor idea. If he made it clear he only wants to be with someone who will satisfy his sex drive then sure, sounds like a reason to break up. It's important to understand each other's wants and needs so you guys should talk about it. Some people figure an open relationship works for them and some people find their partner is perfectly ok with infrequent to no sex. I don't think you're being selfish and if you are insecure about it, tell him. You may feel silly and need him to tell you he doesn't care about it once every so often but it is better than letting insecurities grow and messing up the relationship





May 22, 2020 at 12:02AM

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