Think she used me

Hey guys,

I was seeing a girl from my work for about a month. Things were going good from what I though. But I always had mixed feelings. It always looked liked she wasn’t that into me. The affection was poor at the very best between us. I arranged dates for us to see each other and she would forget. Last one was a dinner. She cancelled last minute due to a friend having panic attacks and said if she could go out for a drink she would tell me. She never did and went out anyways ( saw the IG stories). What would grind my gears is the fact that we talked super easy/chill, she would tease me from time to time and send me photos when I messed with her or asked what she was doing atm. We even slept together one time at her house and got to cuddle but that was it(she was on that time of the month). Yesterday we talked to clarify things because I’m feeling used and disrespect with her past behaviour. She said she dind’t owned me nothing (agree were not dating). When confronted the fact of not telling me/texting me when she said she would the only thing she said was “dont know what to said bout that”. Rn I’m divided. My brain tells me its time to give. My heart wants to give one more shot. But I’m tired of feeling like a dog. I’ve unfollowed her from every social media in order to forget her.

What do tou guys think? Am I right? Or does she really like me?

Thanks for the insight

Submitted March 10, 2020 at 11:51PM

Hey guys,I was seeing a girl from my work for about a month. Things were going good from what I though. But I always had mixed feelings. It always looked liked she wasn’t that into me. The affection was poor at the very best between us. I arranged dates for us to see each other and she would forget. Last one was a dinner. She cancelled last minute due to a friend having panic attacks and said if she could go out for a drink she would tell me. She never did and went out anyways ( saw the IG stories). What would grind my gears is the fact that we talked super easy/chill, she would tease me from time to time and send me photos when I messed with her or asked what she was doing atm. We even slept together one time at her house and got to cuddle but that was it(she was on that time of the month). Yesterday we talked to clarify things because I’m feeling used and disrespect with her past behaviour. She said she dind’t owned me nothing (agree were not dating). When confronted the fact of not telling me/texting me when she said she would the only thing she said was “dont know what to said bout that”. Rn I’m divided. My brain tells me its time to give. My heart wants to give one more shot. But I’m tired of feeling like a dog. I’ve unfollowed her from every social media in order to forget her.What do tou guys think? Am I right? Or does she really like me?Thanks for the insight