It’s socially awkward for me [16F] at school after my brother [18M] apparently slept with one of the teachers.

My brother is pretty popular not only in my school, but in our ‘community’. He has hundreds of friends and has over 1,000 followers on social media so if he did something stupid a lot of people would know. I have a lot of friends because of my brother, but it’s not really a good things sometimes. My brother graduated the 2019 school year, but he and one of our teachers (she’s in her mid 40s) were suspected to have an inapprorpiate relationship.

It was horrible, but I was lucky that it happened towards the end of the school year and things kind of died down during summer. The things is, they were investigating the teacher since some students reported that she was too touchy and flirty with him in class and that supposably somebody saw her give him her personal phone number.

At first I didn’t believe it until now that the teacher was fired after they investigated more. So apparently my brother either started or kept seeing her over summer and that they made a sex tape and after investigating her, she was fired, but not charged since my brother was 18. Obviously everybody found out and people are annoying about it.

It’s personally affecting me and I’m having a hard time with even my own friends talking about it and about how disgusting it is. I’m real mad at my brother that I can’t even look at him even though he gas apologized a lot. I don’t know, like, I live my brother but he did aomething very wrong and stupid. He costed the teacher’s career and marriage and I don’t know if I could ever forgive him. What should I do about my brother?

TlDr: (my older brother had sex with one of the older teachers, they got caught and now it’s been very socially awkward for me because of his stupid actions).



Submitted October 10, 2019 at 12:15AM

My brother is pretty popular not only in my school, but in our ‘community’. He has hundreds of friends and has over 1,000 followers on social media so if he did something stupid a lot of people would know. I have a lot of friends because of my brother, but it’s not really a good things sometimes. My brother graduated the 2019 school year, but he and one of our teachers (she’s in her mid 40s) were suspected to have an inapprorpiate relationship.It was horrible, but I was lucky that it happened towards the end of the school year and things kind of died down during summer. The things is, they were investigating the teacher since some students reported that she was too touchy and flirty with him in class and that supposably somebody saw her give him her personal phone number.At first I didn’t believe it until now that the teacher was fired after they investigated more. So apparently my brother either started or kept seeing her over summer and that they made a sex tape and after investigating her, she was fired, but not charged since my brother was 18. Obviously everybody found out and people are annoying about it.It’s personally affecting me and I’m having a hard time with even my own friends talking about it and about how disgusting it is. I’m real mad at my brother that I can’t even look at him even though he gas apologized a lot. I don’t know, like, I live my brother but he did aomething very wrong and stupid. He costed the teacher’s career and marriage and I don’t know if I could ever forgive him. What should I do about my brother?TlDr: (my older brother had sex with one of the older teachers, they got caught and now it’s been very socially awkward for me because of his stupid actions).
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