Boyfriend cheated on me with his ex.

Yesterday, my [23F] boyfriend [23M] of 6 months confessed that he cheated on me last Monday with his ex[20F].

Just a little backstory, he got his ex pregnant a few years ago and broke up last year because his ex cheated on him twice. The child’s currently with his ex and he comes every often at the ex’s place to visit him. They used to take turns in taking care of him but the kid just suddenly didn’t want to stay at his father / my boyfriend’s place.

I already knew him back then and I’m well aware on what situation he’s in before I dated him.

Now it happened last Monday when he went to visit his child. They had sex before he went home and confessed to me on Wednesday. He knew that I’d break up with him once he fools around with his ex and told me he confessed because he loves me and felt guilty and disgusted after doing it. He said he didn’t love his ex and never had feelings for her ever since their breakup and he was just caught in the moment. Ex has been dropping hints since last week about wanting to have sex and he kept saying ‘no’ and that he already has a girlfriend.

He couldn’t do anything but to say sorry. Now I’m sad. I broke up with him but he’s kind of hoping for another chance. I feel really frustrated because we didn’t have any problems at all, and he’s a sweet guy, and everyone thought so too. I don’t know what to do. He told me it’s not my fault but his. I feel like giving him another chance but I told him if we’re gonna do it, It might just lead to me, prohibiting him to see and talk to his ex thus not seeing his child because of that. I wouldn’t want for him to stop seeing his child ‘cause it’s his right and it would be awful not to. Although he’s willing to do anything even with the conditions just to get me back.

I know breaking up is the answer, but I feel like giving him another chance and I’m afraid I might not be the same anymore. I was at my best during this relationship and so he was, right before he got tempted. Btw, his ex already has a girlfriend and I’m so pissed at the both of them for cheating on me/their partners. :(

TLDR; boyfriend cheated on me with his baby mama and thinking of giving him a chance.



Submitted October 10, 2019 at 12:13AM

Yesterday, my [23F] boyfriend [23M] of 6 months confessed that he cheated on me last Monday with his ex[20F].Just a little backstory, he got his ex pregnant a few years ago and broke up last year because his ex cheated on him twice. The child’s currently with his ex and he comes every often at the ex’s place to visit him. They used to take turns in taking care of him but the kid just suddenly didn’t want to stay at his father / my boyfriend’s place.I already knew him back then and I’m well aware on what situation he’s in before I dated him.Now it happened last Monday when he went to visit his child. They had sex before he went home and confessed to me on Wednesday. He knew that I’d break up with him once he fools around with his ex and told me he confessed because he loves me and felt guilty and disgusted after doing it. He said he didn’t love his ex and never had feelings for her ever since their breakup and he was just caught in the moment. Ex has been dropping hints since last week about wanting to have sex and he kept saying ‘no’ and that he already has a girlfriend.He couldn’t do anything but to say sorry. Now I’m sad. I broke up with him but he’s kind of hoping for another chance. I feel really frustrated because we didn’t have any problems at all, and he’s a sweet guy, and everyone thought so too. I don’t know what to do. He told me it’s not my fault but his. I feel like giving him another chance but I told him if we’re gonna do it, It might just lead to me, prohibiting him to see and talk to his ex thus not seeing his child because of that. I wouldn’t want for him to stop seeing his child ‘cause it’s his right and it would be awful not to. Although he’s willing to do anything even with the conditions just to get me back.I know breaking up is the answer, but I feel like giving him another chance and I’m afraid I might not be the same anymore. I was at my best during this relationship and so he was, right before he got tempted. Btw, his ex already has a girlfriend and I’m so pissed at the both of them for cheating on me/their partners. :(TLDR; boyfriend cheated on me with his baby mama and thinking of giving him a chance.
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