I have been in love, as far as I know, with a guy since little school. We have kept in touch over the years and had a few meetings but it never amounted to anything until a few months ago when we slept together. He has spent years, messaging me for sex completely randomly and unexpectedly. I have never told him or others about my feelings so he shouldn't know (we don't socialise together). obviously it means a lot to me... But he's just asking for sex on his end . He asked me once after our recent hookup and I said no because he was drunk and it was 3am. My feelings are very very intense and although I won't say how high when he says jump.. I can't shake this gut wrenching feeling. I spent the longest nights listening to music that remind me of him and crying when I was younger, those songs are now skipped. This isn't common as far as I know.. Or is it? What the fuck is going on and how do I stop it. I'm regularly taken and / or getting laid so it's not...

So, we are quarantined home for 14 days. 3 days ago I went out shopping and bought enough food for a month. I bought a lot of snacks as well as meat and vegetables. I bought 15 boxes of coconut popsicles and my boyfriend has eaten 7 boxes in 3 days. That is a grand total of 42 coconut popsicles since Friday. I put a lock on our refrigerator/freezer and told him that he is cut off. He started crying and promised me that he would eat more frugally and begged for another chance. I told him “no” and he says that I am nothing but an asshole but I don’t think that I am. TLDR: locked up food so boyfriend stops eating it all Submitted March 16, 2020 at 12:03AM So, we are quarantined home for 14 days. 3 days ago I went out shopping and bought enough food for a month.I bought a lot of snacks as well as meat and vegetables. I bought 15 boxes of coconut popsicles and my boyfriend has eaten 7 boxes in 3 days. That is a grand total of 42 coconut popsicles since Friday.I put a lock on our ...

Content warning for abuse for any who feel like backing out, I guess. Hello everyone, sorry for the bad title and any awkward formatting; I'm posting this from mobile. This is a throwaway account because I don't want to risk the chance of my father or any of my relatives seeing this. This is kind of a really long story but I'll keep it as short as I'm able because honestly I just do not know where to go from here... So some background information: after a series of unfortunate events, myself and my three younger brothers no longer live with my biological parents. My mother was physically and emotionally abusive towards us for years due to some pretty serious drug problems and (deliberately) untreated mental illnesses including but not limited to bipolar, depression, PTSD, and schizophrenia. She was also abusive towards my father. Anyway, after we lost our home (long story) and were homeless for a few months, my parents dumped my siblings and I off at a family friend...

I have a son 14M, my husband has two daughters 18F and 14F and we have a son together who is 16 months. His oldest daughter (18F) is in a relationship with my son (14M). At first we all thought it was a joke but they seem to be taking this seriously, she kisses on the lips. My husband said it was completely inappropriate and told to stop or he'd kick her out of the house. She said it was only a 4 year age Gap and that he's old enough to decide who he wants to be with, that he could consent to sexual activity if he wanted. Then she was very quick to say that they had no sexual contact. My husband repeated what he said. We came home and I was upset because my son had been left alone with her, my husband said he didn't know I'd left the house and thought I was just upset stairs, he said he yelled he was leaving but should have checked. My son was cuddled up with her and he was rubbing her back. I told my husband and he said he told her she needed to leave by tomorrow mo...

I (20F) have been in a relationship with a guy (26M) for 3 months. We have made out, I have given him blowjobs, he has eaten me out, he has fingered me, etc. It is all good. The main thing that is missing is the actual SEXUAL INTERCOURSE. PIV. I have been in two other relationships and our sex life was amazing. We had sex a lot and have never had difficulties with it. The men were also 20+ years older than me so getting into a relationship with someone closer to my age I figured that our sex life would be even better. I was wrong.......we live in the city and since we get along so well we have decided to be roommates bc living in nyc around our age we can’t necessarily have an apartment without roommates. I just moved here three months ago too so I needed someone to live with. We are both really chill and give each other space when needed. We literally sleep in the same bed and he doesn’t try to have sex with me. I have asked him multiple times why. He first said his foreskin was both...

This seems really petty but it's been hurting my feelings. I bought a card game I'm really excited about a few weeks ago. My wife said she'd play it with me, at least try it. She's brought it up on her own a few times, "we can play that game tomorrow", etc. But then whenever I ask, she grumbles or says it's bad timing or backs out some way like that. I keep trying to forget about it, but then she brings up playing again, or I try to approach it after a while. So I get my hopes up, and then when she says no, I get really beaten up inside. It's REALLY stupid how emotional this is making me feel. I told her I'd stop asking about it and that it's totally fine if she just isn't interested. But she says that's not it and wants to play. We're not busy, ever, so it's not that we don't have time. We sit around and watch shows and play our own games and make art and stuff together. How should I handle my dumb emotions over this c...

So, i have been on and of with my BF for 9 years, we met when i was 16 and he was 17, long story shorts we broke up and got back together about 3 years ago. I have loved him with all of my heart, u know, to the core. About six months ago he moved in with me, and that is when things took a turn for the worse. Living with him was awful, I basically became his mom, I cooked, cleaned, did the laundry, dishes u get it. But we constantly argue about his weed habit, I just do not want it around me, he assured me that he would stop or at least not be around me when he smokes, but obviously he did not honor it. He treated med terrible, would start a fight all the time just being rude ALL day. He do not have family, his mom passed when he was really young and his white side of the family acts awful. But I am really close to my family, so over the years he has grown closer to my family, to the point where he sees them as his own and they love him too, they do not know about his drugs habit or ...