My date cancelled on me a second time because she got her nipples pierced.

Yup. I'm pretty pissed. We've been on multiple dates and had an amazing connection, at least that's how I felt.

First time she cancelled for a pretty good reason but left me in the dark about it until the afternoon of our date and I had to ask her for her to even tell me she couldn't see me. After cancelling I asked her, "You're still interested in seeing me right?" Because it felt odd that I had to wait around all day to get an answer. She ignored me all day which really bothered me. Tried texting again later and calling that night but no response and I gave up.

She apologized in text the next day and explained she was hesitant because of shit she went through in her past. We talked through all of it and I forgave her asking her to re do the date next week.

The date rolls around and what do you know, I'm still not getting an idea of if I'm seeing her or not. Called her in the AM to try and figure out what we're doing for the day and no response. She hits me up saying she'll call me back she just got her nipples pierced. "The fuck?? Haha okay". I'm not against that or anything, I actually kid of like that, but that's random. Figured we're still gonna be able to go out so whatever.

Again, waiting around and it's getting late in the afternoon. So I text her "just wanna know if we're still on for today cuz I'll make other plans if not". She's in too much pain and can't go on our date today. "Okay....".

I tell her that it's honestly getting sort of frustrating to see her and I kinda feel like I'm chasing her now. Once again, ignoring. After a few hours I just say fuck it. Goodbye and I hope the best for you.

I wake up the next day and literally no answer. No text. Sorry. Nothing. So I try to avoid sending an angry text but I can't help it. I tell her that it's pretty fucked up to just ignore a guy like this and that I feel like a complete and utter fool for getting excited about someone and that I feel like I've been led on big time.

Told her that I hope the next guy she meets she treats him better then me cuz this was fucked up. It's the next day and still haven't heard a single word from her.

Not looking for advice here. Just ranting cuz I'm still mad. Cancelling on me cuz you got your nipples pierced? Really dude.

Submitted March 22, 2022 at 01:08AM

Yup. I'm pretty pissed. We've been on multiple dates and had an amazing connection, at least that's how I felt.First time she cancelled for a pretty good reason but left me in the dark about it until the afternoon of our date and I had to ask her for her to even tell me she couldn't see me. After cancelling I asked her, "You're still interested in seeing me right?" Because it felt odd that I had to wait around all day to get an answer. She ignored me all day which really bothered me. Tried texting again later and calling that night but no response and I gave up.She apologized in text the next day and explained she was hesitant because of shit she went through in her past. We talked through all of it and I forgave her asking her to re do the date next week.The date rolls around and what do you know, I'm still not getting an idea of if I'm seeing her or not. Called her in the AM to try and figure out what we're doing for the day and no response. She hits me up saying she'll call me back she just got her nipples pierced. "The fuck?? Haha okay". I'm not against that or anything, I actually kid of like that, but that's random. Figured we're still gonna be able to go out so whatever.Again, waiting around and it's getting late in the afternoon. So I text her "just wanna know if we're still on for today cuz I'll make other plans if not". She's in too much pain and can't go on our date today. "Okay....".I tell her that it's honestly getting sort of frustrating to see her and I kinda feel like I'm chasing her now. Once again, ignoring. After a few hours I just say fuck it. Goodbye and I hope the best for you.I wake up the next day and literally no answer. No text. Sorry. Nothing. So I try to avoid sending an angry text but I can't help it. I tell her that it's pretty fucked up to just ignore a guy like this and that I feel like a complete and utter fool for getting excited about someone and that I feel like I've been led on big time.Told her that I hope the next guy she meets she treats him better then me cuz this was fucked up. It's the next day and still haven't heard a single word from her.Not looking for advice here. Just ranting cuz I'm still mad. Cancelling on me cuz you got your nipples pierced? Really dude.