I'm (F22) not sure if I should move on or give him a shot?

I've been crushing big time on my college classmate for maybe 3 months? There are definitely possible signs of interest on his end. Small things like us matching on Tinder once, him offering me a ride the first time we ever had a one on one conversation, him asking if I was getting coffee twice, many looks in class etc. Most recently he eavesdropped on a conversation between my friend and I, in which I jokingly said "God, why can't I meet someone NICE" and he turned around and laughed. He seems a bit nervous around me. He also tends to look at me whenever he says something in class or loudly infront of our classmates, almost like he wants to gauge my reaction. It could all be in my head but idk...I get a vibe.

Thing is, we have literally TWO weeks of class left. And then a month of exams. We've only become friendly with each other in the last 3/4 weeks of class. I'm torn between well if he wanted to he would just ask me out and he hasn't so there's my answer and maybe he isn't sure where I stand and that's why he hasn't asked me out. I'm tempted to make it super obvious because other than Tinder and glances in class, I'm not sure I've shown much interest. Like, I look away as soon as he catches me looking. When he openly asks "anyone fancy a coffee" after class, I never respond because even if he says it while standing beside me what if it isn't aimed at me? Etc. I'm too scared to directly go up to him. The only time I kinda have is when he smiled at me coming into class and I got a sense he wanted me to sit with him.

Submitted March 22, 2022 at 12:16AM

I've been crushing big time on my college classmate for maybe 3 months? There are definitely possible signs of interest on his end. Small things like us matching on Tinder once, him offering me a ride the first time we ever had a one on one conversation, him asking if I was getting coffee twice, many looks in class etc. Most recently he eavesdropped on a conversation between my friend and I, in which I jokingly said "God, why can't I meet someone NICE" and he turned around and laughed. He seems a bit nervous around me. He also tends to look at me whenever he says something in class or loudly infront of our classmates, almost like he wants to gauge my reaction. It could all be in my head but idk...I get a vibe.Thing is, we have literally TWO weeks of class left. And then a month of exams. We've only become friendly with each other in the last 3/4 weeks of class. I'm torn between well if he wanted to he would just ask me out and he hasn't so there's my answer and maybe he isn't sure where I stand and that's why he hasn't asked me out. I'm tempted to make it super obvious because other than Tinder and glances in class, I'm not sure I've shown much interest. Like, I look away as soon as he catches me looking. When he openly asks "anyone fancy a coffee" after class, I never respond because even if he says it while standing beside me what if it isn't aimed at me? Etc. I'm too scared to directly go up to him. The only time I kinda have is when he smiled at me coming into class and I got a sense he wanted me to sit with him.