Nervous about getting stood up

I (F23) have been texting this guy (M25) for about 2 months and we've finally decided to meet in person with restrictions easing up. He initially asked me out and attempted to make plans, and we decided on tomorrow. However, I still don't know the time or place. I last texted him yesterday afternoon asking a question, to which he never responded. It's getting pretty late in the evening now and still no word. I don't plan on reaching out again, because I feel like it's his responsibility at this point.

I haven't had any reason up until this point to expect him to be shady or anything, but maybe I'm just nervous about finally meeting that my anxiety's acting up. Would you reach out again if you were me, or is it in his hands now? I don't even know if it can be considered being stood up if we never had concrete plans but it still feels shitty.



Submitted February 28, 2021 at 12:04AM

I (F23) have been texting this guy (M25) for about 2 months and we've finally decided to meet in person with restrictions easing up. He initially asked me out and attempted to make plans, and we decided on tomorrow. However, I still don't know the time or place. I last texted him yesterday afternoon asking a question, to which he never responded. It's getting pretty late in the evening now and still no word. I don't plan on reaching out again, because I feel like it's his responsibility at this point.I haven't had any reason up until this point to expect him to be shady or anything, but maybe I'm just nervous about finally meeting that my anxiety's acting up. Would you reach out again if you were me, or is it in his hands now? I don't even know if it can be considered being stood up if we never had concrete plans but it still feels shitty.

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