To reply or not to reply 🤔

I (F37) have been talking to a guy (M35) on Tinder for two and a half weeks. We chatted everyday and seemed to be hitting it off, both equally invested. I'm off from work so I have a lot of free time, he works full time. He's immunocompromised also, so he says he hasn't gone out too much because if covid. We pretty much talked about almost everything about ourselves already.... so the convo was going stale. Last thing I told him was that the school district I work for would be going 100% remote learning in the fall. He then told me that was really good news that way so many ppl wouldn't be put at risk. This was 4 days ago. I didnt reply back, feltvlike that was the end of that convo. But part of me doesn't want to start a new convo, I feel like we should be at the stage of at least texting or talking on the phone. Or perhaps even setting a date to meet. I don't want to keep investing time in chatting with someone who i may or may NOT actually have chemistry with once we meet. However, i don't want to be the pursuer, I don't want to ask him when are we going to meet. I want him to take initiative. This is the longest we haven't communicated, 4 days. Is it fine to just wait this out??

Submitted August 09, 2020 at 09:41PM

I (F37) have been talking to a guy (M35) on Tinder for two and a half weeks. We chatted everyday and seemed to be hitting it off, both equally invested. I'm off from work so I have a lot of free time, he works full time. He's immunocompromised also, so he says he hasn't gone out too much because if covid. We pretty much talked about almost everything about ourselves already.... so the convo was going stale. Last thing I told him was that the school district I work for would be going 100% remote learning in the fall. He then told me that was really good news that way so many ppl wouldn't be put at risk. This was 4 days ago. I didnt reply back, feltvlike that was the end of that convo. But part of me doesn't want to start a new convo, I feel like we should be at the stage of at least texting or talking on the phone. Or perhaps even setting a date to meet. I don't want to keep investing time in chatting with someone who i may or may NOT actually have chemistry with once we meet. However, i don't want to be the pursuer, I don't want to ask him when are we going to meet. I want him to take initiative. This is the longest we haven't communicated, 4 days. Is it fine to just wait this out??