He left me on the curb (date gone wrong)

I went out on a first date with a guy and Im in a completely new city & state, I just moved here last month. Everything was going well until after dinner, we went back to his place to watch a movie and we drank more. This is when things started going downhill because we both got drunk and went to his bed where I honestly cannot remember what I said that made him mad, but according to him I said something disrespectful and he said "I think you should go home."

I said "How?" he said "Ill call you an uber." I walk outside and I said ok is the uber coming? he said yes. I wait outside on his curb at 12 am for like 15 mins and no car is coming so I go ring his doorbell again and he says why are you still here? I said the uber didnt come. He laughed and said he didnt call me an uber, that Im a grown woman and should know how to get home myself.

At this point I started crying because I dont know where I am and Im drunk and scared to be out on the street alone. So I call a taxi and I have to go ring his doorbell again to get the address. He tells me to leave or hes going to call the cops. I walk back out to the street, call the taxi & his roommate comes out to stand next to me cuz Im crying. His roommate is mad too for some reason & says I should know how to get home by myself. He said hes getting cold so he goes back inside.

I get into the taxi & the taxi driver was really nice saying how I dont deserve to be treated like that. I just feel so embarrassed. I felt so small.



Submitted February 24, 2020 at 11:01PM

I went out on a first date with a guy and Im in a completely new city & state, I just moved here last month. Everything was going well until after dinner, we went back to his place to watch a movie and we drank more. This is when things started going downhill because we both got drunk and went to his bed where I honestly cannot remember what I said that made him mad, but according to him I said something disrespectful and he said "I think you should go home."I said "How?" he said "Ill call you an uber." I walk outside and I said ok is the uber coming? he said yes. I wait outside on his curb at 12 am for like 15 mins and no car is coming so I go ring his doorbell again and he says why are you still here? I said the uber didnt come. He laughed and said he didnt call me an uber, that Im a grown woman and should know how to get home myself.At this point I started crying because I dont know where I am and Im drunk and scared to be out on the street alone. So I call a taxi and I have to go ring his doorbell again to get the address. He tells me to leave or hes going to call the cops. I walk back out to the street, call the taxi & his roommate comes out to stand next to me cuz Im crying. His roommate is mad too for some reason & says I should know how to get home by myself. He said hes getting cold so he goes back inside.I get into the taxi & the taxi driver was really nice saying how I dont deserve to be treated like that. I just feel so embarrassed. I felt so small.

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